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Based on the week ending Sat 21 Feb 2015

In association with, this is a weekly list of the one hundred best selling BDSM and Fetish non-fiction books. (We're starting to compile a list for BDSM fiction too.) The figures in brackets show the book's ranking in the previous week.

1 (1) The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures by Dossie Easton

The essential guide for singles and couples who want to explore polyamory in ways that are ethically and emotionally sustainable. For anyone who has ever dreamed of love, sex, and companionship beyond the limits of traditional monogamy, this groundbreaking guide navigates the infinite possibilities that open relationships can offer. Experienced ethical sluts Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy dispel myths and cover all the skills necessary to maintain a successful and responsible polyamorous lifestyle--from self-reflection and honest communication to practicing safe sex and raising a family. ...
 Amazon US: $16.99   Amazon UK: £16.50   Amazon FR: €16.26    Amazon DE: €16.02 

2 (2) Complete Shibari Volume 1: Land by Douglas Kent

About the series... Shibari is the Japanese-inspired art of tying a subject to not only immobilize them, but to do so elegantly and beautifully - creating an intimate and erotic experience for both the subject and the person tying. Adopted by rope enthusiasts all over the world, shibari (literally "to tie” or "to bind”) is a cornerstone of erotic rope art and the subject of captivating performances and photographs. However, in-depth resources for learning the art are difficult to obtain, making shibari intimidating, obscure and difficult to master... Until now. The Complete Shibari series is ...
 Amazon US: $30.00   Amazon UK: £21.99   Amazon FR: €28.70    Amazon DE: €31.88 

3 (6) Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism by Philip Miller

The classic guide to sadomasochism by two experienced players. This unabashed, entertaining book strips away myth, shame and fear, revealing the truth about an intense form of eroticism too long misunderstood and condemned. It is fully indexed and includes over 225 photos and illustrations, a 250-plus word glossary, appendices with over 650 contacts for SM related clubs, stores, craftspeople and literature.
 Amazon US: $24.95   Amazon UK: £17.99   Amazon FR: €23.88    Amazon DE: €23.54 

4 (3) SM 101: A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman

Call it what you like - bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadomasochism. More and more people are experimenting with this exciting , consensual form of erotic play. SM 101 is your basic guidebook to safe rewarding SM. This book includes: finding partners, negotiating the scene you want, bondage techniques, spanking and whipping, erotic torture, role playing, related practices, physical and emotional safety. Must read book.
 Amazon US: $24.95   Amazon UK: £18.99   Amazon FR: €23.88    Amazon DE: €23.54 

5 (5) The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance by Mistress Lorelei

In 1994, The Mistress Manual was born as a simple pink guidebook self-published by an experienced dominant woman. She moved on to other efforts, and the book fell out of print - much to the disappointment of thousands of eager submissive men and dominant women. Now, Greenery Press has brought this classic back to life in an updated new edition - perfect reading for the woman or man who has completed our Sexually Dominant Woman and is looking for more information. Covers everything from establishing authority to exerting discipline. (Don't miss its famous "Ten Rules for a Successful Mistress"!)
 Amazon US: $16.95   Amazon UK: £13.99   Amazon FR: €15.71    Amazon DE: €15.48 

6 (4) Two Knotty Boys Showing You The Ropes: A Step-by-Step, Illustrated Guide for Tying Sensual and Decorative Rope Bondage by Two Knotty Boys

When Two Knotty Boys, Dan and J. D., began teaching rope bondage together in 1999, they discovered that most people learn best when they're shown — close up, step by step, and repeatedly — how to tie basic knots and combine them into bondage techniques. It is this learning process that they duplicate in this book. With the help of world-renowned photographer Larry Utley, they use over 750 photos and captions to explicate the soup-to-nuts techniques for turning great knots into great bondage that is safe, sensual, attractive, and effective. Readers can learn at their own pace, review whole ...
 Amazon US: $16.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €16.22    Amazon DE: €15.99 

7 (13) The New Bottoming Book by Janet W. Hardy

Almost a decade ago, the first 'Bottoming Book' taught tens of thousands of people that bottoming - being a submissive, masochist, slave, 'boy' or 'girl,' or other BDSM recipient - is as much an art as topping. Since then, the growing popularity of BDSM, and the blossoming of the Internet as a source of information and connection, have created a whole new universe of possibilities for players. Now, the completely updated revised 'New Bottoming Book' gives even more insights and ideas, updated for a new millennium, about how to be a successful, popular bottom! New sections on ...
 Amazon US: $14.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €14.31    Amazon DE: €17.38 

8 (11) Domination & Submission: The BDSM Relationship Handbook by Michael Makai

The definitive handbook on Domination and Submission (D/s) relationships and the BDSM lifestyle. A must-read for anyone considering or curious about non-traditional relationships within a fetish culture context. Funny, insightful, educational, and inspiring. Author Michael Makai goes in-depth on Dominants, submissives, switches, primals, and their relationship dynamics. Learn about BDSM activities, bondage, toys, groups, protocols, and safety. This book even dares to go where others fear to tread: The Gorean subculture, online D/s & BDSM, first meetings, religion vs. kink, and what could ...
 Amazon US: $22.50   Amazon UK: £11.39   Amazon FR: €21.38    Amazon DE: €21.08 

9 (7) The BDSM Coloring Book: An Activity Book for Kinksters With Crayons by Michael Makai

The ultimate activity book for kinksters with crayons! Full of fascinating and informative pages of BDSM lifestyle information, colorable illustrations, and Michael Makai's offbeat humor to keep your "Little" engaged and entertained for hours!
 Amazon US: $7.95   Amazon UK: £5.28   Amazon FR: €7.56    Amazon DE: €7.45 

10 (14) Jay Wiseman's Erotic Bondage Handbook by Jay Wiseman

If you can tie your shoelaces, you can create an erotic masterpiece! From the author of SM 101 comes this compendium of sensible, sensational advice about how to tie up your sweetie, or get tied up yourself. Everything from simple hands-behind-the-back experimentation to immobilizing spreadeagles and hogties - all presented with Wiseman's trademark humor and responsibility. Simple and easy-to-follow, with no complex knots and plenty of illustrations to guide you on your way to bound bliss.
 Amazon US: $16.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €15.71    Amazon DE: €15.99 

11 (9) The Loving Dominant by John Warren

Everything the amateur player needs to know about heterosexual, male-dominant love-making. Warrenaka Mentor is a longtime participant in the dominance/submission scene. As he guides readers through this rarely seen world, he offers clear-eyed advice that will refresh and enlighten the most well-informed erotic explorers. Most importantly, Mentor discusses the hidden basis of the D/S relationship: the care, trust and love between partners.
 Amazon US: $16.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €16.22    Amazon DE: €15.48 

12 (17) The Control Book by Peter Masters

The Control Book is about the fine art of taking control of your partner. It's about the processes involved, about taking control, using control, about ensuring that you have control, and-importantly-about giving control back once you are done with it. The book discusses how this works-the psychology of it-and looks at what can go right, and at what can go wrong and how to fix it. It considers the role of authority in the equation, and looks at how to manage the control you have over someone so that it is both effective and rewarding for you both. I believe that a very large part of the ...
 Amazon US: $16.95   Amazon UK: £10.56   Amazon FR: €14.12    Amazon DE: €13.93 

13 (10) The Sexually Dominant Woman: A Workbook for Nervous Beginners by Lady Green

In the six years since her initial publication of a Xeroxed pamphlet called "The Sexually Dominant Woman", Lady Green has taught tens of thousands of women, men and couples the fundamentals of safe, fun, erotic female-dominant play. Now Lady Green returns with the publication of the revised and updated third edition of her classic The Sexually Dominant Woman. This friendly, non-threatening book is the perfect starting point for the woman who has fantasized about erotic power play, explaining the fundamentals of bondage, sensation and control games. It includes a script to inspire and support ...
 Amazon US: $11.95   Amazon UK: £8.99   Amazon FR: €11.44    Amazon DE: €11.28 

14 (19) The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton

Tens of thousands learned the emotional and ethical skills of BDSM topping from the first 'Topping Book.' Now, in addition to the sage advice and good humor that made the first edition a classic, the authors tackle some of the issues that have come up for tops in the last six years: on-line domination, the challenges and rewards of 'lifestyle' relationships, ensuring our own and our partners' safety, and more.
 Amazon US: $14.95   Amazon UK: £10.99   Amazon FR: €14.31    Amazon DE: €14.10 

15 (23) Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission by William Brame

A breakthrough in sexual literature, this work is a complete, comprehensive user-friendly guide to and tour through the world of alternative sexual lifestyles. While the topics are exotic and erotic, the authors handle each one in a sensitive, thorough, analytical, and fascinating way and manage to explain a secret world to those who might wish to visit.
 Amazon US: $22.95   Amazon UK: £22.95   Amazon FR: €21.27    Amazon DE: €20.96 

16 (8) The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage by Midori

From ornately decorative to excruciatingly stringent, Japanese rope bondage is an art which has developed over centuries of martial and erotic practice. Now, accomplished Japanese-born educator and bondage practitioner, Midori shows step by step how to achieve beautiful and exciting Japanese bondage on a variety of genders and body types. Each chapter starts with a spectacular, tasteful full-color photo of the finished bondage pose - harnesses, hogties, standing and bent-over poses, and more - then goes back and explains with text and line art how each rope and knot is placed to achieve the ...
 Amazon US: $27.95   Amazon UK: £19.99   Amazon FR: €26.75    Amazon DE: €26.37 

17 (15) Two Knotty Boys Back on the Ropes by Two Knotty Boys

Tying down a load of lumber is one thing; tying up your partner is another thing altogether. In this book, famed bondage riggers the Two Knotty Boys show readers how to tie basic knots and use them in sensual bondage techniques. With the help of renowned photographer Ken Marcus, the Boys use more than 750 full-color photos to illustrate the techniques for turning rope into rope bondage. Easy-to-follow captions and clear, step-by-step images allow readers to learn at their own pace, review entire techniques at a glance, or lay the book flat on a bed or table and follow along as they subdue ...
 Amazon US: $22.00   Amazon UK: £16.99   Amazon FR: €21.05    Amazon DE: €20.75 

18 (16) The Art of Sensual Female Dominance by Claudia Varrin

Are you looking for something novel in your sex life, a new and exciting way to express your most intimate feelings? The Art of Sensual Female Dominance is an introduction to a different, more daring love-style. Leather one night, lace the next, D&S can provide the techniques and confidence to turn you into a different woman every night, the possibilities limited only by your imagination. Besides bringing adventure to the bedroom, female dominance can be liberating and life-changing, putting you in touch with your female power and heightening your self-esteem.
 Amazon US: $15.95   Amazon UK: £10.53   Amazon FR: €14.78    Amazon DE: €15.05 

19 (18) The Submissive Activity Book: Building Blocks To Better Service by Shannon Reilly

The Submissive Activity Book is your ticket to self-accountability during your journey as a submissive in the Leather and BDSM Communities. This book contains exercises and recommendations to help you improve your service with or without a power exchange relationship. If you've ever felt disconnected from your service because you weren't actively serving a dominant, this book is for you. When you learn to be accountable to yourself, you'll find serving others easier and more fulfilling. If you're engaged in a power exchange relationship and want to improve your service, this book is the ...
 Amazon US: $9.95   Amazon UK: £6.45   Amazon FR: €8.56    Amazon DE: €8.44 

20 (12) Complete Shibari Volume 2: Sky by Douglas Kent

About the series... Shibari is the Japanese-inspired art of tying a subject to not only immobilize them, but to do so elegantly and beautifully - creating an intimate and erotic experience for both the subject and the person tying. Adopted by rope enthusiasts all over the world, shibari (literally "to tie” or "to bind”) is a cornerstone of erotic rope art and the subject of captivating performances and photographs. However, in-depth resources for learning the art are difficult to obtain, making shibari intimidating, obscure and difficult to master... Until now. The Complete Shibari series is ...
 Amazon US: $30.00   Amazon UK: £21.99   Amazon FR: €28.70    Amazon DE: €31.88 

21 (24) Burlesque and the Art of the Teese/Fetish and the Art of the Teese by Dita Von Teese

On one side, Dita Von Teese shares the beauty of the burlesque world, with bubblegum dreams and show tunes to strip to. Flip over for fantasies in fetish with dramatic costumes and the allure of submission.

Burlesque and the Art of the Teese

"I advocate glamour. Every day. Every minute." I'm a good dancer and a nice girl, but I'm a great showgirl. I sell, in a word, magic. Burlesque is a world of illusion and dreams and of course, the striptease. Whether I am bathing in my martini glass, riding my sparkling carousel horse, or emerging from my giant gold powder compact, I ...
 Amazon US: $39.99   Amazon UK: £25.00   Amazon FR: €38.26    Amazon DE: €37.73 
22 (25) Look Into My Eyes: How To Use Hypnosis To Bring Out The Best In Your Sex Life by Peter Masters

Here's a practical, no nonsense guide to using hypnosis in your sex life. Hypnosis can help you lower inhibitions, and increase sexual feelings and responsiveness. It can also be used to help you get more out of your role-playing and fantasies. And it can be a lot of fun. In this book, Peter Masters takes you firstly through a step-by-step guide to hypnotising your partner, and then explores how you can use hypnosis to: - Heighten their sexual feelings - Help them focus and stay involved longer - Create compelling sexual fantasies - Help them get more involved in your ...
 Amazon US: $16.95   Amazon UK: £10.56   Amazon FR: €14.12    Amazon DE: €13.93 

23 (22) The Better Built Bondage Book: A Complete Guide to Making Your Own Sex Toys, Furniture and BDSM Equipment by Douglas Kent

Tired of overpriced, poorly made sex toys? Can your wallet not keep up with your desires? The Better Built Bondage Book is the only guide you'll ever need to create high-quality sex toys yourself. You'll learn how to make toys by following easy-to-understand directions that let you succeed the first time. And all toys use only easy-to-find parts. If you can tie a knot, you can already make many of the 100+ toys. But not all the toys are basic! From simple designs you can make in a few minutes to portable furniture you can build in an afternoon, you'll be making toys that could turn ...
 Amazon US: $39.99   Amazon UK: £28.99   Amazon FR: €37.05    Amazon DE: €40.11 

24 (21) Domestic Discipline by Jules Markham

Domestic Discipline is a lifestyle choice for couples who want to rebalance their relationship and live in harmony through the application of caring, loving, discipline. This book show you how to set up, run, and benefit from a disciplinary lifestyle. Topics include: Why do people want a DD lifestyle? The Philosophy and Psychology of DD. Spanking and other forms of discipline. Corrective versus restorative discipline. Orgasm control and sexual focus. Discipline and emotional cycles. Synchronising your cycles. Applying the discipline. Maintenance discipline. Denial and Chastity. Enema ...
 Amazon US: $18.99   Amazon UK: £9.99   Amazon FR: €18.17    Amazon DE: €14.48 

25 (29) Ropes, Bondage, and Power: Power Exchange Books' Resource Series by Lee Harrington

There is no other book currently in print that covers such a wide range of topics for rope enthusiasts. There are many extraordinary rope books in print, but they are almost exclusively guides to how one goes about learning this art. Said differently, virtually all the rope books in print are meant to help readers learn the how of rope bondage. That’s not what this book does. This book shares the views of seventeen prominent riggers as they explain the why of their art. This book is about the power of rope. This book is also about the power exchange aspect of rope. Even more that that, ...
 Amazon US: $19.95   Amazon UK: £12.70   Amazon FR: €15.00    Amazon DE: €14.79 

26 (46) When Someone You Love is Kinky by Dossie Easton

When Someone You Love Is Kinky to help "non-kinky" folks understand and communicate with their kinky friends, partners, and relatives. Included are guidelines for dealing with the emotional turmoil of the coming-out process; brief and non-threatening descriptions of the commonest kinks (and ideas about why people enjoy them); suggestions for how to talk to your kinky friend or relative in ways that promote good communication; explanation of how kinky people keep themselves safe while exploring diverse sexualities; a glossary of commonly used terminology from the kink communities; a resource ...
 Amazon US: $15.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €15.26    Amazon DE: €17.38 

27 (20) Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macram by Lee "Bridgett" Harrington

Japanese rope bondage and erotic macramé look complicated and intimidating, but you can learn the basics of this beautiful and sexy art form today. Bondage artist and educator Lee "Bridgett" Harrington takes you step-by-step through a variety of concepts and ties, giving you the tools to make aesthetically rewarding rope work. Each tutorial is broken down into easy to follow photographs by Circle23 with detailed descriptions, including how to tie all those knots (first secret of Japanese bondage revealed- there are only a few simple knots). From restrictive poses that limit movement to ...
 Amazon US: $21.99   Amazon UK: £16.50   Amazon FR: €21.04    Amazon DE: €20.75 

28 (32) The Master's Manual: A Handbook of Erotic Dominance by Jack Rinella

This book examines various aspects of erotic dominance including SM, safety, sex, erotic power, techniques, and much more. Even if your primary interest is erotic submission rather than dominance, this book will give you insights that will help you lead you to a more fufilling sexuality. The author speaks in a clear, frank, and nonjudgemental way to anyone with an interest in the erotic dominant/submissive dynamic.
 Amazon US: $15.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €14.78    Amazon DE: €17.38 

29 (35) Female Domination by Elise Sutton

Sex, Relationships, Sexuality
 Amazon US: $29.98   Amazon UK: £18.80   Amazon FR: €23.30    Amazon DE: €22.98 

30 (27) Erotic Slavehood: A Miss Abernathy Omnibus by Christina Abernathy

Combines Miss Abernathy’s Concise Slave Training Manual and Training With Miss Abernathy in one deluxe volume for the first time. In 1996, Christina Abernathy condensed her considerable wisdom and experience on the topic of consensual erotic owner/slave relationships into her first slim, elegant little manual; Miss Abernathy’s Concise Slave Training Manual. In 1998, in response to consumer demand, she laid out a detailed program for training the erotic slave in various aspects of service, obedience and proper values, Training With Miss Abernathy. These two books have become essential ...
 Amazon US: $15.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €14.78    Amazon DE: €14.57 

31 (31) Bondage For Sex by Chanta Rose

Adult Ed has an entirely new meaning, thanks to this first-of-its-kind guide to bondage in consensual relationships. This book corrects many misconceptions about bondage, educating readers and giving them the tools needed to explore their desires using restraint and rope bondage. This type of erotic play requires trust between two people and can be a wonderful way to bond with a partner. Chanta crushes the misconception that bondage is violent or dangerous and explains • How to approach your partner in non-threatening way about your kinky desires • Professional, step-by-step instruction ...
 Amazon US: $31.95   Amazon UK: £22.99   Amazon FR: €30.57    Amazon DE: €30.14 

32 (39) Protocols: Handbook for the Female Slave by Robert J. Rubel

This book is a guide prepared for a slave to enable her to express her love for her Master through her actions. In this case, her actions include ways of standing, sitting and speaking (ways of being) as well as ways of preparing things to please her Master in a consensual "Master/slave" relationship. The book covers formal Leather protocols as well as a range of personal rituals, such as formal dinner service. As much as anthing else, this is a book of etiquette and service within the Leather-BDSM culture.
 Amazon US: $19.95   Amazon UK: £12.70   Amazon FR: €15.00    Amazon DE: €18.23 

33 (36) Becoming a Slave by Jack Rinella

Becoming a Slave is an authoritative, and well-documented book on the process of finding and submitting to a dominant. Beginning with a description of terms and the characteristics to be found in a master and in a slave, the book continues with how one realizes and understands their own desire to submit and serve, proceeds to the process of advertising, searching, meeting, and interviewing prospective masters, and ends with a great deal of practical advice on submitting, serving, and satisfying a dominant in a healthy and practical way.
 Amazon US: $21.95   Amazon UK: £14.10   Amazon FR: €18.91    Amazon DE: €18.64 

34 (37) Flogging by Joseph W. Bean

The craft, the science and the loving art of flogging... by a 30-year veteran master flogger! Possible the most popular activity in the erotic power exchange lexicon, flogging offers sensations ranging from gentle massage through tearing agony. Leatherman/educator Joseph W. Bean explains how to choose a flogger, negotiate a scene, read your partner's mental and physical state, select patterns and strokes to create a palette of sensation, and much more!
 Amazon US: $11.95   Amazon UK: £9.99   Amazon FR: €11.44    Amazon DE: €11.28 

35 (28) Uniquely Rika by Ms.Rika

This is Not your typical D/s manual. Uniquely Rika provides a practical, intelligent, common-sense approach to adding D/s to your relationship; with long-termed success. You'll see how fulfilling the inner desire to serve or be served is within your reach - without having to mask yourself in artificial roles and games. Ms. Rika explains why several popular approaches fail to last. She then details her approach to creating successful D/s relationships; one which has proven as effective with seasoned D/s players as with those who never thought themselves to be a 'dominant' or 'submissive'. ...
 Amazon US: $29.95   Amazon UK: £19.20   Amazon FR: €25.53    Amazon DE: €25.17 

36 (50) A Hand in the Bush: The Fine Art of Vaginal Fisting by Deborah Addington

Vaginal fisting - the intimate, potent sexual act of gradually inserting the entire hand into the vagina is an increasingly popular form of sexplay among lesbians, bisexuals and heterosexuals alike. Now, for the first time, an experienced fister and fistee explains in detail how to fist with the greatest possible safety and pleasure. Extensively illustrated, this long-awaited guide by Deborah Addington has been approved by three fisting-positive physicians and by many experienced practitioners. Also includes an eye-opening section of anecdotes and poetry by fisting-lovers, plus an extensive ...
 Amazon US: $13.95   Amazon UK: £9.21   Amazon FR: €12.93    Amazon DE: €12.75 

37 (26) SlaveCraft: Roadmaps for Erotic Servitude--Principles, Skills and Tools by Guy Baldwin

Guy Baldwin, author of Ties That Bind, joins forces with a grateful slave to produce this gripping and personal account on the subject of consenual slavery. Philosophical and intense, Slavercraft dares to delve beneath the surface of D/s relationships and gives us an intimate and revealing view from a rare perspective- that of a slave. The authors examine the psychology and spirituality behind the Master/ slave dynamic, and the result is a book that is resourceful, thought provoking and sexually charged. Beautifully written and intriguing, Slavecraft is sure to leave an impact.
 Amazon US: $15.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €14.78    Amazon DE: €14.57 

38 (40) Consensual Sadomasochism : How to Talk About It and How to Do It Safely by William A. Henkin

Easy to read, easy to follow, and easy to understand, in this book the authors define and demystify the unique language of consensual sadomasochism, examine the psychological power of erotic dominance and submission, provide a carefully considered guide for safe SM play, and explain how SM can be an activity of intense intimacy and sophisticated erotic theater, as well as one of simple sexual pleasure. Combining their extensive professional credentials with deep personal experience, the result is an original introduction to a widely misunderstood realm of human sexuality. "Henkin and Holiday ...
 Amazon US: $17.95   Amazon UK: £12.99   Amazon FR: €16.63    Amazon DE: €16.40 

39 (75) Radical Ecstasy by Dossie Easton

Leather, tantra and spirit combine in this revolutionary sex book, which partners BDSM and sacred-sex practices. For millennia, seekers have used physical and emotional extremes to achieve transcendence and exaltation. Today, many BDSM and leather practitioners are discovering the potential of SM practice to reach personal, interpersonal and spiritual goals. With trademark frankness and humor, these popular BDSM/sexuality authors share techniques using tantric breathing, visualization and movement with BDSM to create states of transcendence during solo and partnered sexual and practice. The ...
 Amazon US: $16.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €16.22    Amazon DE: €15.99 

40 (81) BDSM The Naked Truth by Dr. Charley Ferrer

America's BDSM Expert, Dr. Charley Ferrer pulls back the leather curtain and exposes the world of Dominance and submission. Whether you're a novice, curious seeker, or have been dabbling in power exchange relationships for some time, BDSM The Naked Truth provides valuable information and dispels many of the misconceptions in this often misrepresented and highly erotic lifestyle. Doctor Charley reveals why men and women seek bondage, discipline and sadomasochistic activities; why a submissive yearns to surrender; and why a Dominant nourishes that craving. Discover the affection, respect and ...
 Amazon US: $15.95   Amazon UK: £9.66   Amazon FR: €12.35    Amazon DE: €12.17 

41 (34) Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders by Lucy Fairbourne

MALE CHASTITY: The practice of securing a consenting adult male by means of a lockable chastity device such that the chastened male’s sexual release can be achieved only with the keyholder’s involvement and consent. KEYHOLDER: The one who holds the above male’s key.
 Amazon US: $12.00   Amazon UK: £8.00   Amazon FR: €11.77    Amazon DE: €11.61 

42 (56) Sensuous Magic 2 Ed: A Guide to S/M for Adventurous Couples by Patrick Califia

Mixing erotic vignettes with practical how-to advice and personal insight, Sensuous Magic is the author’s guide to sadomasochism for couples. For readers who harbor fantasies of erotic dominance and submission, Sensuous Magic demystifies S/M, explaining terminology and technique. Experienced players will appreciate the author’s knowledge of S/M safety and his insight into S/M psychology. Novices will be reassured by the book’s honest, frank approach. This new edition discusses myths about S/M, the psychology of bondage, communication and negotiation, techniques of pleasure and sensation ...
 Amazon US: $16.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €16.22    Amazon DE: €15.99 

43 (30) Master/slave Relations: Handbook of Theory and Practice (M/s Studies Books) by Robert J Rubel PhD

This book is for Masters. This book is for established Masters who are curious about what someone could possibly write on the subject they know so well. This book is also for those relatively new to the BDSM Lifestyle who are finding themselves called to Mastery. The book covers a wide range of topics, starting with some planning steps to use before you even start looking for a slave, progressing through the negotiations stages, and ending up with some tips and techniques that you can consider once you’ve been with your slave for a while. In that light, this book is an excellent choice if you ...
 Amazon US: $19.95   Amazon UK: £12.70   Amazon FR: €15.00    Amazon DE: €14.79 

44 (69) Fetish: Fashion, Sex & Power by Valerie Steele

Kinky boots, corsets, underwear as outerwear, second-skin garments of rubber and leather, uniforms, body piercing.... Today everything from a fetishist's dream appears on the fashion runways. Although some people regard fetish fashion as exploitative and misogynistic, others interpret it as a positive Amazonian statement--couture Catwoman. But the connection between fashion and fetishism goes far beyond a few couture collections. For the past thirty years, the iconography of sexual fetishism has been increasingly assimilated into popular culture. Before Michelle Pfeiffer's Catwoman, there was ...
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45 (33) The Toybag Guide to Hot Wax & Temperature Play by Spectrum

Heat and cold offer almost infinite possibilities for the devious sensualist, and Spectrum, a scientist as well as a personal devotee of the art, has spent many years studying ways to make temperature play safe as well as well, hot.
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46 (41) The Compleat Slave: Creating And Living An Erotic Dominant/submissive Lifestyle by Jack Rinella

In this highly anticipated followup to The Master's Manual, author jack Rinella continues his in-depth exploration and discussion of Dominant/submissive relationships with his latest book, The Compleat Slave. This informative overview of the leather scene features Rinella's guidelines, tips, and personal experiences in creating safe and sane Master/slave relationships. Whether you are a novice or an experienced Master or slave, this insightful and forthright volume will prove to be a great read and a valuable reference guide.
 Amazon US: $15.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €15.26    Amazon DE: €17.38 

47 (43) Leathersex: A Guide for the Curious Outsider and the Serious Player by Joseph W. Bean

Everyone wants a more interesting and fulfilling erotic life. With that in mind, this book was written to give guidance to one popular style of erotic play which the author calls "leathersex"-sexuality that may include S/M, bondage, dominance, submission, fantasy, role playing, sensual physical stimulation, and fetish, to name just a few. If you are simply curious about leathersex, or if you already enjoy its pleasures but want to learn more, this book is for you!
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48 (67) The Compleat Spanker by Lady Green

Everything you always wanted to know about consensual erotic spanking - anatomy, warm-up, implements, positions, troubleshooting, tricks and tips, and much more. The Compleat Spanker has solid coverage of many striking implements beyond the traditional hand-spank.
 Amazon US: $29.95   Amazon UK: £9.99   Amazon FR: €12.39    Amazon DE: €14.48 

49 (51) Dark Moon Rising: Pagan Bdsm & the Ordeal Path by Raven Kaldera

Throughout history, from the Hindu Kavadi ceremony to the Lakota Sun Dance, the Ordeal Path has been an honored spiritual road to the magic of the flesh, and to touching the Gods. Today many Pagans are discovering this path, by accident or by design. Simultaneously, many practitioners of secular Bdsm are finding themselves having spiritual experiences in the middle of their most secular scenes. This book explores the crossover points between both these communities and practices, a cross-section which is growing steadily, baring controversial articles on topics as diverse as sacred pain, ...
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50 (78) 21st Century Kinkycrafts by Janet W. Hardy

Dozens of beloved basics from the original, one-of-a-kind classic: 1996 KinkyCrafts-- including the Thousand Tailed Flogger, the Bubble Wrap Dildo and many more. These original creative playthings are still in widespread use in toybags all over the world. But as new players and new ideas have flocked into the scene over the last decade, Greenery Press has added even more--and better--ways to turn everyday household materials into bondage equipment, dungeon toys, sex gadgets and even safer sex supplies. The brand-new 21st Century KinkyCrafts includes * 15 new KinkyCrafts projects from ...
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51 (90) Partners in Power: Living in Kinky Relationships by Jack Rinella

Is it possible to form lasting, healthy, loving relationships that are based on power, control and pain? Of course it is -- if you approach it with common sense, care and affection. Respected scene leader Jack Rinella has carefully explored how BDSM relationships fit into the lives of real people of all genders and orientations. From that research, and his own two decades as a an active leatherman, he has assembled this sensible, readable manual about how kinky relationships really work. You'll learn how to decide what you want from a relationship, find partners, distinguish between fantasy ...
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52 (49) 50 Shades Of Curious: BDSM For Beginners: You've read "Fifty shades of grey". Now let America's favorite "50SOG" coach & BDSM expert teach you how to safely try it yourself by Bo Blaze PCC

NOTE: Get a FREE version of the book on kindle with purchase of softcover version! In his new book, 50 Shades of Curious- BDSM for Beginners , America’s favorite Fifty Shades of Grey coach, BDSM educator Bo Blaze, PCC draws from his over 20 years of experience to provide an accessible introduction to the mysterious worlds of kinky sex and BDSM.  Written for a diverse audience and friendly to those who have little to no experience with concepts like dominance and submission or S&M, the book discusses the ins and outs of the physical, psychological, emotional, and technical ...
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53 (45) Protocol Handbook for the Leather Slave: Theory and Practice (M/S Studies Book) by Robert J Rubel PhD

While recognizing that every Master creates individualized protocols for a slave, this book is an example of a real protocol manual in a real-life situation. The content is virtually the same as the content for “Protocol Manual for the Female slave,” except while that book assumes that the Master is male and that the slave is female, this book is gender-neutral. So, if you’re a Female Master with either a male or female slave, this is the better book of the two for you to buy. This guide demonstrates a range of ways for a slave to express love for his/her Master through action. In this ...
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54 (84) The Pleasure's All Mine: Memoir of a Professional Submissive by Joan Kelly

When Joan Kelly took a weekend job as a professional submissive in a private dungeon, it seemed she'd finally found a perfect outlet for her pent-up desires. Suddenly, Joan was being paid to do things she'd only fantasized about. Having spent several years scouring the Internet unsuccessfully for a man who would dominate her in the bedroom without getting on her nerves outside of it, Joan had nearly lost hope of satisfying her sexually submissive urges. Now, using her professional name, "Marnie," she was being paid to do only what she felt like with kinky men who didn't even expect to have ...
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55 (55) Ask the Man Who Owns Him: The real lives of gay Masters and slaves by david stein

ASK THE MAN WHO OWNS HIM is the first book to present, in their own words, the real lives of long-term gay Master/slave couples and families. Sixteen slave­owners and their properties around the U.S. and in Canada welcomed the authors into their homes and spoke candidly about how each relationship started, how it evolved to meet the challenges of living in conventional society, and how it works today. All of these bonds have lasted for at least three years - some for well over a dozen years. These relationships are different from the Master/slave stereotypes of erotic fiction. They're also ...
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56 (70) Family Jewels: A Guide to Male Genital Play and Torment by Hardy Haberman

CBT is a BDSM activity that either makes men cringe with fear or lights up their faces with delight. This book is a 'guide' to this form of play with excellent info about the following topics: basic male anatomy, negotiation and safewords, play benefits and risks involved, safe sex play and cleaning CBT toys, and also descriptions of various CBT toys. This book is very entertaining and informative.
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57 (60) Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink Educational, Sensual, And Entertaining Essays by Midori

Tired of standing on the sexual sidelines? Wonder what it's like to be a real kink adventurer? Let world famous Midori lead you into the thick of it. This new collection of smoldering wisdom and and frank essays explores the Wild Side of Sex, including these burning subjects: * Is Your Prospect a Proper Pervert’ * Fetishism: Sex, Romance, and Ritual * The Heart of Erotic Humiliation * Finding the Power Femme This delightfully twisted new volume entertains and titillates as well as educates, an erotic personal adventure exposing Midori's most helpful and empowering secrets.
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58 (79) How to be Kinky: A Beginner's Guide to BDSM by Morpheous

For singles and couples looking to take a walk on the wild side but questioning where to begin, How to be Kinky offers the perfect starting place. Instead of emphasizing techniques and clinical issues, it takes a more practical approach, with advice on finding a scene, negotiating kinky play with a partner, maintaining boundaries, kinky uses for common household objects, and the proper protocol at fetish events, as well as the basics of BDSM play and role-playing.
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59 (48) Come Hither: A Commonsense Guide To Kinky Sex by Gloria G. Brame

How do you tell your partner that you'd like to be spanked? Where can you find a good dominatrix? If your husband like to wear your panties, does that mean he's gay? What really goes on at SM clubs? After you tie someone up, what exactly are you supposed to do? Is there such a thing as normal sex? If you've ever wondered about the ins and outs of bondage, spanking, or cross-dressing, look no further. Come Hither is a frank, friendly guide on how to turn your secret fantasies into satisfying expressions of love and desire. The official resource guide for SM/fetish sex at the Institute ...
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60 (53) Play Piercing by Deborah Addington

Play piercing, a recent addition to the lexicon of kink, offers insight, pleasure and erotic thrills. This is the first book to explain in detail the hows and whys of this fascinating practice, and offers detailed, responsible information on anatomy, safety and resources for play piercers. Like all Greenery Press books on potentially risky practices, it’s been vetted by several kinkpositive physicians to ensure that its information is responsible and uptodate. In addition to the nuts and bolts of play piercing practice, Play Piercing also includes plenty of hot, intense descriptions of play ...
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61 (61) The Femdom Experience by Elise Sutton

An experience is the process of personally participating in an activity, event or lifestyle. Fantasy does not always translate over to reality because reality must contend with the bodily limitations of the physical world, whereas fantasy enjoys the unlimited boundaries of the imagination. Nevertheless, fantasy is often the product of reality. For one person's fantasy is another person's reality. Notable FemDom author Elise Sutton examines the Female Domination lifestyle by taking the reader into the personal relationships and sexual practices of everyday people who live astonishing secret ...
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62 (-) The Submissive Goal Setting Journal by Shannon Reilly

The Submissive's Goal-Setting Journal is designed to help those who identify as submissives, slaves, bottoms, etc. set goals in conjunction with those they serve. In this book you will find forms, suggestions, and processes to help you set goals, keep track of your progress, and assess your success. The book is broken into twelve sections so you can use it for a full year. The sections are not dated so you can begin your planning at any time during the year.
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63 (59) Miss Abernathy's Concise Slave Training Manual by Christina Abernathy

Down-to-earth information about how consensual owner-slave relationships really work. Detailed suggestions on service, sex, ownership symbols, rewards, punishments, contracts and more.
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64 (54) Fetish 101: Celebrate Your Fantasies by Peter W. Czernich

Fetish 101: Celebrate Your Fantasies
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65 (-) Urban Aboriginals by Geoff Mains

A subculture of gay men participate in a radical form of sexuality and community known as leather. Through intimate forms of encounter, using such tools as pain-pleasure, bondage, and role-play, leather can bring a shift of conciousness and a new vision of the self. This innovative book pioneered in sensitively exploring and celebrating leathersexuality. As relevant today as when it was written 20 years ago, Urban Aboriginals is an intimate view of the gay male leather community. Within its pages, author Geoff Mains explores the spritual, sexual, emotional, cultural and physiological aspects ...
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66 (38) Ties That Bind: The SM/Leather/Fetish Erotic Style: Issues, Commentaries and Advice by Guy Baldwin

The writings of one of the most respected and knowledgable people on the subject of SM/leather/fetish erotic style has been compiled in this book. Issues regarding relationships, the community, the SM experience, and personal transformation, as they relate to this form of erotic play, are addressed. Unlike many in the mental health field, Mr. Baldwin takes the approach that this style of erotic play can definitely be part of a healthy expression of one's sexuality. Many have benefitted from his sound advice in seminars, worjkshops and through his many published articles. Now, much of this ...
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67 (44) Learning the Ropes: A Basic Guide to Safe and Fun S/M Lovemaking by Race Bannon

This brief volume explains how partners can explore their dominant and submissive S/M fantasies in a safe and fun manner. Negative myths are dispelled and replaced with the truth about the kind of S/M erotic play that so many adults enjoy. You'll learn what S/M is, how to do it safely, and much, much more.
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68 (47) Woof! Perspectives into the Erotic Care & Training of the Human Dog (Boner Books) by Michael Daniels

Woof! Perspectives into the Erotic Care and Training of the Human Dog, is an absolute must read for those into pup training, or those who want to be trained. From the trainer's point of view, it provides a detailed insight into the responsibilities, requirements, and fun of human pup training. From the experimenting pup's perspective, it provides a great insight into what you should be looking for in a decent trainer.
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69 (97) Creating A Personal Protocol by Shannon Reilly

A workbook of practical exercises designed to take the reader step by step through the process of creating a personal protocol for use in structuring a power exchange relationship. This book has been nominated for a National Leather Association Geoff Mains Award for non-fiction books.
 Amazon US: $9.95   Amazon UK: £6.45   Amazon FR: €8.56    Amazon DE: €8.44 

70 (-) Erotic Surrender: The Sensual Joys of Female Submission by Claudia Varrin

Varrin relates her personal experiences with submissive fantasies as she introduces the general D&S (dominance and submission) vocabulary and emphasizes the emotional and physical benefits that can be derived from erotic surrender.
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71 (88) Consensual Spanking by Jules Markham

Consensual spanking is for adults wishing to indulge in a spanking relationship either for pleasure or as lifestyle choice. Topics include: Why people enjoy playing spanking games How to conduct a spanking How to receive a spanking Spanking safely Organising a typical spanking session Positions, postures and presentation. Use of spanking implements Aspects of role-play Basic control techniques. Sensual and erotic forms of spanking Spanking as fore-play Domestic discipline.
 Amazon US: $16.99   Amazon UK: £9.99   Amazon FR: €14.02    Amazon DE: €14.93 

72 (72) Where I Am Led: A Service Exploration Workbook by Christina Parker

This book is for the use of slaves who wish to perfect their life by daily, weekly and monthly written exercises. The assignments are thoughtful and provoking and lead the novice into a higher understanding of the slave culture. This is a revised and expanded second edition of Parker's "The Path of Service".
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73 (-) Bitch Goddess: The Spiritual Path of the Dominant Woman by Pat Califia

Book by
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74 (-) Skin Tight: Rubbermen, Macho Fetish and Fantasy by Tim Brough

Handbook for Rubber Fetish
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75 (100) Male Bondage: Art Deserves a Witness by Van Darkholme

This is a collection of photographs depicting artfully arranged bonds - named Shibari, the Japanese style of bondage - that shows captive enthusiasts in their favourite positions: defenceless, at someone else's mercy and left alone in their joyful pain. Bondage sessions are rarely photographed so aesthetically and glamorously. Not just devotees of the strung up will be buying this book off the shelves, but fans of brilliant photography have a wonderful book to add to their collections.
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76 (-) The Art of Spanking by Jean-Pierre Enard

A classic tome where the heroine is introduced to the spicy pleasures of being administered- and administering- spankings! Manara beautifully and abundantly illustrates the tongue-in-(ahem)-cheek text. Luxuriously presented trade paper back in sepia and black colors and with flaps.
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77 (68) Leather Contest Guide: A Handbook for Promoters, Contestants, Judges and Titleholders by Guy Baldwin

Guy Baldwin won the titles of International Mr. Leather 1989 and Mr. National Leather Association 1989. These titles, along with Mr. Baldwin’s position as a long time and respected member of the leather community, make him uniquely qualified to address this subject. He is a psychotherapist-educator and a sought after speaker nationwide.
 Amazon US: $14.95   Amazon UK: £10.99   Amazon FR: €13.85    Amazon DE: €13.66 

78 (-) Betty Page Confidential by Stan Corwin Productions

Curvaceous, friendly and wholesome-looking, Playboy pinup Betty Page was the perfect complement to the still-innocent fantasies of young men during the Eisenhower years. Betty Page Confidential includes a biography of the reclusive goddess, an official Betty Page trivia quiz and 100 photos. Betty Page Confidential is the ultimate book on this 1950s icon.
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79 (42) The Toybag Guide to Clips and Clamps by Jack Rinella

A quick reference guide to everything pinchy, from simple wooden clothespins to hand-tooled precision devices of gleaming chrome. Clamps offer a versatile spectrum of sensation to the knowledgeable player, and this book is the clamp-user’s best friend.
 Amazon US: $9.95   Amazon UK: £6.99   Amazon FR: €9.52    Amazon DE: €9.39 

80 (87) Female Dominance: Rituals And Practices by Claudia Varrin

As a sexual adventurer, you have already taken the first steps into the magical world of romantic, consensual BDSM. You've started exploring the boundaries of your innermost fantasies in the arena of dominance and submission. You are on top in this breathless exchange of power--the one who takes whip in hand to orchestrate the most delightfully wicked ways of the domina. Now, in Female Dominance , former professional dominatrix and glamorous fetish diva Claudia Varrin helps you and your ever-willing slave take it to the next level. This lavish, fully illustrated book guides you ...
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81 (-) Bettie Page Queen of Hearts by Jim Silke

What a dish! What a doll! What a delinquent! Bettie Page sent the world for a cold shower when her first photo appeared in Flirt magazine in 1951. Bettie ignited a flame that burned through the art community, affecting forever the way women were portrayed by artists and photographers. In this 96-page coffee-table book, historian and artist Jim Silke explores Bettie's influence on popular culture, from dime-store novels to paperbacks, and from painting to advertising. Featured in this volume are fifty new images of Bettie, including never-before-published photographs by Bunny Yeager, as well as ...
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82 (-) Dances with Werewolves (Memoirs of a Spanking Model) by Niki Flynn

Niki Flynn is a young woman on a journey into the dark heart of her own sexual fantasies. She is regularly restrained, spanked, caned, and whipped in the most notorious adult films of modern times—and she doesn't do it for financial gain or because she's a masochist. Niki Flynn makes extreme adult movies because of her curious and profound love of surrender and punishment. Her desires are all about authority and power in situations where she has none, where she is at the mercy of others who lack just that. And for the thrill of dread, anticipation, and the euphoria that follows when she ...
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83 (91) The Bride Wore Black Leather...And He Looked Fabulous!: An Etiquette Guide for the Rest of Us by Drew Campbell

Book by Drew Campbell
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84 (52) Protocols: A Variety of Views: Power Exchange Books' Resource Series by Robert Rubel PhD

Not all Families use protocols. Those that do use protocols in their relationship range from using only a few protocols to having an extensive Protocol Manual written out for the slave’s use. Those who use common Leather protocols may use them slightly differently, based on the part of the country in which they live. One often hears about “East Coast versus West Coast” styles of protocols. Also, many Masters or Doms make up their own protocols as befits that particular relationship. All this is good. This issue contains articles from Masters and slaves that represent divergent views. More ...
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85 (80) The Topping Book: Or Getting Good at Being Bad by Dossie Easton

The Topping Book: Or Getting Good at Being Bad
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86 (-) The Kinky Girl's Guide to Dating by Luna Grey

When the guy your mother warned you about is exactly the guy you’re looking for, the usual rules of dating aren’t going to help you out much. Learn from one girl’s mistakes û and she’s made some doozies û as you find out what life is like for a single woman today in the world of dominance, submission, BDSM, fetish and kink. The personal ads and the chat rooms, the fetish clubs and the leather conferencesàfor the single woman whose sexual fantasies run toward the unconventional, the options are bewilderingly numerous. The rewards are tantalizing û love, excitement, unparalleled sexual ...
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87 (66) Master Nage's Guide to Training Consensual Slaves by Master Nage

An entertaining and informative look at Dominance and submission, from finding the right slave to keeping a collar around her neck. If you think it doesn't take work to keep a slave, you've never tried it. Learn from an experienced Master who lives the lifestyle--from both his triumphs and his mistakes. You'll never look at Dominance and submission the same way again. Master Nage is a real life Master, practicing D/s (Dominance/submission) since 1992. He moved to Hobart Tasmania in 2003 to be with his slave dana, who he subsequently married. Master Nage writes full time. He writes erotica, ...
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88 (-) Many Hearts, Many Loves, Many Possibilities: The Polyamory Relationship Workbook by Christina Parker

This book provides a powerful tool for everyone seeking to look beyond their fears, fantasies, and stereotypes and step into the reality of polyamory relationships whether they are just taking their first steps on that journey or are experienced travelers. A combination of information, insight, and detailed questionnaire, it is designed to help people get a clear understanding of who they are, what they want, and what they need in order to maintain a fulfilling relationship of any kind - regardless of gender, sexual orientation, or life situation. Ultimately, that personal understanding will ...
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89 (62) The Toybag Guide to Dungeon Emergencies and Supplies by Jay Wiseman

An essential quick reference guide to minor and major emergencies that can take place during play û from scrapes to freakouts to fires -- plus how to set up a cost-effective first aid kit and other emergency supplies for the sexually adventurous.
 Amazon US: $9.95   Amazon UK: £6.99   Amazon FR: €9.22    Amazon DE: €9.09 

90 (99) Making Nylon Whips by Shannon Reilly

Based on the techniques learned both through working with whip makers and trial and error,this book is a step-by-step guide to plaiting a nylon snake whip. Filled with clear and detailed photos and instructions, this book will enable you to make your own snake whips from nylon paracord.
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91 (-) The Toybag Guide to Age Play (Toybag Guides) by Lee Harrington

The adult baby, the sassy schoolgirl, the bratty teen – all hold an honored place in the erotic roleplaying imagination of many adults. International educator Lee “Bridgett” Harrington, an ageplay devotee of many years’ experience, explains the boundaries, possibilities and techniques of consensual adult ageplay.
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92 (-) How to Be a Dominant Diva by Georgia Payne

Hey, Divas! Are you ready to take control of your lust life --and your man? How To Be A Dominant Diva serves up 69 frisky, seductive sex games designed to help you do just that. By opening our revolutionary Doors of Desire, you and your lover will possess all the tools necessary to explore eroticism, role-play and power exchange in a way that's exciting but never intimidating. And once you master our tips and tricks, not only will you have your man's full attention --you'll hijack his every thought even when you’re not around! Each sexy scenario includes detailed instructions, a list ...
 Amazon US: $24.95   Amazon UK: £15.99   Amazon FR: €25.25    Amazon DE: €24.89 

93 (82) Master/slave Relations: Communications 401 (M/s Series) by Robert Rubel PhD

Make your communication tool kit as complete as your toy bag: - Tips for getting on the same page with your partner - Methods of communicating during emotional upsets - Adding skills for clear and consistent communication - Connecting better with your partner - Exploring how you think, in order to learn how you communicate - Tools for communicating more smoothly with your slave or Master This book covers techniques from many disciplines and many communication theorists to produce a practical work, jammed with tips and techniques for improving communication and problem resolution ...
 Amazon US: $19.95   Amazon UK: £12.70   Amazon FR: €15.00    Amazon DE: €14.79 

94 (-) The Bottoming Book: How to Get Terrible Things Done to You by Wonderful People by Dossie Easton

The Bottoming Book" and "The Topping Book", by the inimitable writing team of Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt, are the groundbreaking books that take a realistic look at what motivates tops and bottoms - what turns us on, what gets us off. Laced with funny, exciting personal anecdotes, they examine the joys and frustrations of being a bottom or a top - physically, emotionally and spiritually - and give you lots of realistic ideas about how to get more of what you want, Perfect for tops and bottoms of any gender or orientation. Don't miss Fish's hot, funny, fabulous illustrations!
 Amazon US: $11.95   Amazon UK: £8.99   Amazon FR: €11.07    Amazon DE: €10.92 

95 (83) The Human Pony: a handbook for owners, trainers and admirers by Rebecca Wilcox

Renowned ponymistress Rebecca Wilcox distills her decades of expeience owning and training bio-horses, plus her fiendishly kinky imagination, into a comprehensive, photographically illustrated introduction to outfitting and training the human pony.
 Amazon US: $27.95   Amazon UK: £19.99   Amazon FR: €26.75    Amazon DE: €28.98 

96 (89) The Real Bettie Page: The Truth About the Queen of Pinups by Richard Foster

Many people know Playboy centerfold Bettie Page as America's greatest pin-up girl of the 1950s. At the height of her popularity, Bettie disappeared--some feared she had been killed by the mob, while others said she became a born-again Christian and was ashamed of her infamous bondage modeling. Here is the definitive, unauthorized biography of the Queen of Curves, revealing her struggles for fame and love and her descent into violent obsession and madness.
 Amazon US: $14.95   Amazon UK: £10.99   Amazon FR: €13.85    Amazon DE: €13.66 

97 (-) Eric Kroll's Fetish Girls by Eric Kroll

New York photographer, Eric Kroll, is known for his pictures of models in leather and rubber, bound and gagged. In this book, the American King of Fetishism opens the door on a cabinet of bizarre lust and fantasy, spiced with an unfailing and unmistakable irony.
 Amazon US: $29.99   Amazon UK: £16.99   Amazon FR: €20.00    Amazon DE: €19.99 

98 (64) Erotic Surrender: The Sensual Joys of Female Submission by Claudia Varrin

Varrin relates her personal experiences with submissive fantasies as she introduces the general D&S (dominance and submission) vocabulary and emphasizes the emotional and physical benefits that can be derived from erotic surrender.
 Amazon US: $16.00   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €15.26    Amazon DE: €17.38 

99 (95) My Private Life: Real Experiences of a Dominant Woman by Mistress Nan

Within these pages the author allows the reader a brief glimpse into the true private life of an erotically dominant woman. As you read each sexually charged chapter, it is often hard to believe that what you are reading is true. But nothing in this book is fiction. Mistress Nan has beautifully recounted some of her more erotic and exciting encounters with the men and women in her life. Each scene is vivdly detailed and reads like the finest erotica, but knowing that these scenes really occured as written adds incredibly to the sexual excitement they elicit. If you wish to read for erotic ...
 Amazon US: $16.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €16.22    Amazon DE: €15.99 

100 (-) The Toybag Guide to Canes and Caning by Janetw Hardy

To the uninitiated, it’s a simple stick. To the skilled player, the cane is simple, beautiful, utilitarian and intense. Janet Hardy shares a decade and a half of expertise on both ends of the cane: use, materials, construction, maintenance, different styles of application, pacing, aftercare and much more.
 Amazon US: $9.95   Amazon UK: £6.99   Amazon FR: €9.52    Amazon DE: €9.39 

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