| 1 (2) The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures by Dossie Easton Hands down the best book on polyamory and open relationships! Ideal for any single or couple looking to explore the world of non-monogamy, or anyone experienced in the lifestyle seeking to improve their relationships. Fantastic, highly recommended reading!
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| 2 (1) Two Knotty Boys Showing You The Ropes: A Step-by-Step, Illustrated Guide for Tying Sensual and Decorative Rope Bondage by Two Knotty Boys As a newbie to the rope scene, I knew only basic knots, and a few decorative ties. This book had a bunch of great decorative ties that I absolutely loved, and the step by step pictures made it simple. I really recommend this book as a beginner book.
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| 3 (3) Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism by Philip Miller This book was really good at covering a wide range of topics in the lifestyle while at the same time adding a little humor. Was really an easy book to get through without getting bored or overwhelmed. I would definitely recommend this book to anyone interested or curious about this type of lifestyle.
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| 4 (6) The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance by Mistress Lorelei Great information, explained for the absolute beginner. This information can be used for an online, virtual relationship as well as for real life relationships. Useful and entertaining and workable. Highly recommended.
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| 5 (5) SM 101: A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman Jay Wisemans knowledge both medically and personal contribute to this book on a large scale. Mine is highlighted and dog eared.
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| 6 (4) Two Knotty Boys Back on the Ropes by Two Knotty Boys A few years ago I purchased a book by these men named "Two Knotty Boys Teaching You the Ropes". I was very impressed with the quality of instruction that the book provided. "Back on the Ropes" is equally great, and a must have for any rope player.
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| 7 (9) The Loving Dominant by John Warren this is a topaz book so it won't go on my reader; no way to cancel the purchase; got screwed by Amazon again...
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| 8 (8) The Control Book by Peter Masters This book was superbly written, and I think it is a great book for everyone to read as it covers many aspects of what control is and does.
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| 9 (7) The New Bottoming Book by Janet W. Hardy I thought this book contained a lot of useful information, at least for me. Although some of the things described were a bit out there for me, they may not be for everyone. The writers are clearly experienced in the lifestyle, which was refreshing to find out. It isn't a 'how to' manual on bottoming. It's more of an advice type book.
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| 10 (19) The Master's Manual: A Handbook of Erotic Dominance by Jack Rinella I am glad this book was written, as there are some insights that you can read and go - this is so true and downright awesome. The problem is they are glossed over or buried or seem to for me to just be part of the chapter being written rather than codes to live by. Jack Rinella knows his stuff is a great guy and writing a book like this is tough. If you are a first timer, Screw the Roses or SM101 or the loving dominant are far better books. But I still felt this was a valuable if somewhat frustrating read as it did not live up to its potential.
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| 11 (14) Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé by Lee "Bridgett" Harrington As a bondage enthusiast and instructor, I have a significant selections of books in my library. This one however was a recent addition when I happened to meet Lee at a workshop. At the time I purchased the book to help support a starving artist/author passing through town, and it went strait to the bookshelf when I got home. I was having a rope enthusiast meeting at my place and honestly had no idea what I wanted to select as a theme. Lee's book provided the inspiration, the bondage in that book was simple but clever, and allowed me to settle on Corsetry as my theme. I've since run ...
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| 12 (13) Burlesque and the Art of the Teese/Fetish and the Art of the Teese by Dita Von Teese Dita von Teese's idea of feminism is for a woman to be as feminine as possible. Music to the ears of us lumbering dinosaurs who buy our wimmen clothes to match the decor in the kitchen, and pat them on the head if they haven't crashed the car. Though how this thinking sits with the dungaree-and-spiky-crop brigade, I will never know (Under-arm hair: should they, shouldn't they...oh the agony! Oh the controversy!). 'Burlesque' is a glossy A4 hardback containing hundreds of extremely stimulating photographs of this outrageously magnificent woman. Von Teese sits, stands, lies, crouches and ...
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| 13 (18) How to be Kinky: A Beginner's Guide to BDSM by Morpheous How To Be Kinky is exactly the introduction that it promises to be. The book is a light read and when properly motivated can be finished in a sitting, but also serves as a good reference to look back at in the future. The anecdotes and short quips lighten the mood and take some of the serious tone out, while the book still remains intelligent and thoughtful. The information is presented well and while it is aimed at beginners, there is surely something to be learned by even experienced players who read this book. The photographs included are helpful to the text and serve as instructional ...
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| 14 (16) Jay Wiseman's Erotic Bondage Handbook by Jay Wiseman Jay Wiseman writes with an ease of subject that transmits to the reader and practitioner. He explains in detail all the how's and why's to successfully begin exploring the world of erotic bondage. This is just one of his many well written books, all of which educate, entertain and take the mystery out of a taboo subject.
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| 15 (12) The Sexually Dominant Woman: A Workbook for Nervous Beginners by Lady Green Not exactly new information, I still learned a lot. For those of us exploring new sides of our sensuality it is an excellent primer. I'd always been curious...and perhaps even more. Now I want to experience. Thanks for the starting point. I'm a lot less nervous about experimenting and a lot more eager to test the waters.
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| 16 (11) The Art Of Sensual Female Dominance: A Guide for Women by Claudia Varrin My sister is interested in exploring this lifestyle with her husband. After reading the review, I decided that this is the book I wanted to purchase as a gift for her. I read the book myself (and am already very experienced in the D/s lifestyle but as part of a MD/fs couple). I found it to be a very good overview of and introduction into many elements of play.
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| 17 (15) Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders by Lucy Fairbourne I bought the book for additional information, in particular more insight into the psyche of one that wants to be chaste. I found the book seemed to be written mostly with the novice in mind or as one reviewer wrote a "vanilla wife". The book also focuses on hygiene (very important for long term), benefits of chasting him, being a confident woman and building an ultimately submissive male. All around a very informative book/guide.
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| 18 (20) Protocols: A Variety of Views: Power Exchange Books' Resource Series by Robert Rubel PhD Not all Families use protocols. Those that do use protocols in their relationship range from using only a few protocols to having an extensive Protocol Manual written out for the slave’s use. Those who use common Leather protocols may use them slightly differently, based on the part of the country in which they live. One often hears about “East Coast versus West Coast” styles of protocols. Also, many Masters or Doms make up their own protocols as befits that particular relationship. All this is good. This issue contains articles from Masters and slaves that represent divergent views. ...
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| 19 (10) Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission by William Brame this was a great first experience with amazon. my product was mailed to mein a very timely manner and arrived exactly the way it was promised. have already ordered my second book. the book is just what i was looking for. gave me the information i needed. thank you.
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| 20 (25) Bondage For Sex by Chanta Rose I decided to purchase this book after hearing Chanta talk about it during a podcast. I have wanted to explore rope bondage with my partner but was having difficulty making time to learn the how-to details and this sounded like a book that would quickly and easily bring everything together for me. Prior to the purchase I did read the reviews here which were mostly favorable. When I received the book and started going through it I realized the few negative reviews were very accurate in what they had to say - the instructions are confusing and the knots are impossible to figure out based on ...
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| 21 (32) Female Domination by Elise Sutton I always wanted to live this type of lifestyle and this book really helped me intorduce my wife to the idea of being in total control. She was a little hesitant at first but as we read the chapters she discovered that this was somthing that alot of men wanted, and there were many advantages for her! She is really growing into her Dominate role and I couldnt be happier as her submissive husband. I would recommend this to any man that wants to submit to his wife and needs some help to explain the lifestyle to her.
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| 22 (36) Domestic Discipline by Jules Markham I found this book intriguing. I read it before giving it to my Master and now he is reading it. I love the ideas presented here, even if they often made me blush. If you can apply the book's concepts to your relationship, you should. For me it's been so far, so good!
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| 23 (27) The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities by Dossie Easton Polyamory works (quite well actually) when the central character is young and attractive and horny. Add a few years that bring droop, sag and jiggly jowls. Add to that tricky financial considerations (which is the main source of contention in monogamous relationships), children (from other relationships or otherwise) and the care of aging parents. Then the whole concept goes to hell in a hand basket. Polyamory is our era's freak-show-du-jour. Our alternative to the failed free-love mish-mash of the 60s. That didn't survive and neither will polyamory. But it sells books. Oh Behave!
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| 24 (17) Erotic Surrender: The Sensual Joys of Female Submission by Claudia Varrin As an "interested", I was looking for some books to get more serious and realistic information about the BD/SM culture and what the various practices really were (not what I imagined them to be). This book I found to be very well written by a woman who obviously know what she's talking about. She explains things in clear, simple, real and easy to understand language, and shares her own experiences. Through this book I was able to understand much more about this life-style, and about my own fascination with it. It helped to relativate some of my own misperceptions and prejudices and to ...
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| 25 (21) The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton Written by two Lesbians it seems to offer Topping from a Female view. Yes Virginia all Doms are not created equal. Yet in the real world the vast majority are MALES. It's cutsy, cutsy manor of writing get's old quick. It is NOT a how to book. Little attention is paid the the actual scene. Rather it concentrates on responsibilities of a Top and safety. I agree for the newbie these can NOT be overemphasized!! When one takes control of another the submissive/slave gives their all into your hands so, for me, Job one is to put YOUR wants/needs/desires on a low shelf and create an ...
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| 26 (28) The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage by Midori I bought the book hoping for step-by-step beginner instruction, as the ads and book promised. To my surprise, instead of basic stuff, the book BEGINS with more advanced ties like the "crab." Simple stuff like wrist-to-wrist or arms-together behind the back isn't even covered. Nothing of the basics. Nada. Zip. Zilch. The illustrations (mostly line drawings) are extremely poorly done, so it is hard to figure things out. As my friend said, "You can't even tell which rope is which." Text is not step-by-step nor is it matched well to the illustrations. The poor illustration quality and poor ...
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| 27 (42) The Compleat Slave: Creating And Living An Erotic Dominant/submissive Lifestyle by Jack Rinella It took awhile for the item to get to me. I had it by the estimated delivery date in as much as at the very end of that timeline although I received shipping confirmation long before that. The book was in new condition as promised though and ultimately I was somewhat pleased overall. I would order from this seller again so long as I wasnt expecting the item to be delivered quickly.
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| 28 (38) SlaveCraft: Roadmaps for Erotic Servitude--Principles, Skills and Tools by Guy Baldwin I will never deal with this seller again. I still have not received the book I ordered from them even though I received shipping confirmation two days after placing the order. It is now a week past the deadline for the delivery timeframe I was given. I sent the seller an email regarding the order and was given some nonsense diatribe in response. What I want is my product that they certainly processed payment for. I will not deal with this seller again nor would I recommend them to anyone!
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| 29 (31) Master/slave Relations: Handbook of Theory and Practice (M/s Studies Books) by Robert J Rubel PhD While this might be of some use for someone young and new to the Lifestyle who does not have a good introductry book on BDSM or an interest in SM, I found it a disappiontment. It goes over old ground that others have done better like safe calls and negociations in a disorganized way. There is no significant information about SM safety. It reads like it is a series of short pieces cut and pasted from a web site. A lot of it is just common sense advice you might give a vanilla teenager before they started dating. If you are looking for Mr. Benson, you will not him here.
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| 30 (33) Protocols: Handbook for the female slave by Robert J. Rubel This was a well written book but focused very specifically on the lifestyle and arrangement made between the Author and his slave. The Author's lifestyle is a fairly lucrative one, and for anyone who might be in a low to middle income range, or who doesn't spend a lot of their time in the Public scene or Formal Entertainment, you may have a hard time finding something in the book that you can relate to. Not recommended for slaves looking for ideas in normal, day to day protocols that they can weave into their lives around the daily grind of work, sleep, kids, and all the other household ...
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| 31 (29) Consensual Sadomasochism : How to Talk About It and How to Do It Safely by William A. Henkin If you are exploring the lifestyle, this book is a good general overview of what to expect. But, as with any "how to" book, real life experiences vary. This book is very explicit and informative. It is tastefully written to inform the reader, not tantilize. The book accomplishes its objective.
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| 32 (22) The Submissive Activity Book: Building Blocks To Better Service by Shannon Reilly The Submissive Activity Book is your ticket to self-accountability during your journey as a submissive in the Leather and BDSM Communities. This book contains exercises and recommendations to help you improve your service with or without a power exchange relationship. If you've ever felt disconnected from your service because you weren't actively serving a dominant, this book is for you. When you learn to be accountable to yourself, you'll find serving others easier and more fulfilling. If you're engaged in a power exchange relationship and want to improve your service, this book is the ...
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| 33 (43) Power Exchange Books: The Art of Slavery by Robert Rubel This is a gem of a read. This book contains contributions from various authors; telling us their thoughts and experiences on a subject matter that they are so very passionate about. It's great to absorb each individual view and to see where they're coming from and how they deal with their unique obstacles.
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| 34 (23) You Know You Love It : Lessons in Sexual Mischief by Ilona Paris Great book! Amazing short stories. Very insightful about bdsm and all kinds of play. Overall a very good read. Anyone interested or unknowledged about the subject should pick this book up. It might get you "hot" be warned :p.
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| 35 (24) Erotic Slavehood: A Miss Abernathy Omnibus by Christina Abernathy This book is a pretty good book and it goes into more details about slavehood and not just the erotic side of it. It delves into it all.
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| 36 (35) Creating A Personal Protocol by Shannon Reilly A workbook of practical exercises designed to take the reader step by step through the process of creating a personal protocol for use in structuring a power exchange relationship. This book has been nominated for a National Leather Association Geoff Mains Award for non-fiction books.
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| 37 (34) Look Into My Eyes: How To Use Hypnosis To Bring Out The Best In Your Sex Life by Peter Masters If your looking for a book to aid you in seducing young maidens; this is not the book for you. This is a well written handbook for those who have a understanding of hypnosis, that wish to expand their knowledge to use it in the bedroom. The author will tell you right at the beginning that this takes two willing partispants to use this book. So all you misguided deviants beware of wasting your money trying to seduce women by purchasing this book.
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| 38 (39) The Femdom Experience by Elise Sutton Elise Sutton is back with a sequel to her underground bestseller, Female Domination: An exploration of the male desire for Loving Female Authority. Her new non-fiction book is titled, The FemDom Experience, and it's a collection of personal stories from people who have participated and lived the Female Domination lifestyle as a reality. The book is divided into three sections that deal with the professional dominatrix, FemDom relationships, and FemDom groups. First, however, are a preface and introduction that delve into the growing phenomenon of Female Domination and its affect on ...
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| 39 (44) Dark Moon Rising: Pagan BDSM and the Ordeal Path by Raven Kaldera Raven's grasp of the nuances of the spiritual aspect of the path is exceptional. The Ordeal path is one which is traveled alone,for many. This book is a wonderful message telling those who do travel the path that they are not alone and it validates their calling.
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| 40 (69) A Hand in the Bush: The Fine Art of Vaginal Fisting by Deborah Addington I don't know what I was expecting with this book but it was a little more hardcore than I was thinking. Although you don't have to go as far as they talk about it is still a good educational book.
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| 41 (46) Ropes, Bondage, and Power: Power Exchange Books' Resource Series by Lee Harrington There is no other book currently in print that covers such a wide range of topics for rope enthusiasts. There are many extraordinary rope books in print, but they are almost exclusively guides to how one goes about learning this art. Said differently, virtually all the rope books in print are meant to help readers learn the how of rope bondage. That’s not what this book does. This book shares the views of seventeen prominent riggers as they explain the why of their art. This book is about the power of rope. This book is also about the power exchange aspect of rope. Even more that ...
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| 42 (26) The Better Built Bondage Book: A Complete Guide to Making Your Own Sex Toys, Furniture and BDSM Equipment by Douglas Kent This book contains many ideas for toys and easy-to-use instructions on how to make them. It also includes hints, tips and warnings about how to do things and what not to do.
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| 43 (52) Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink Educational, Sensual, And Entertaining Essays by Midori I'd like to say first that I like Midori a lot. I met her several months ago when I took one of her workshops. She's a pretty classy lady with a lot of style, and I enjoy her writing quite a bit. However, I was very disappointed to find this book peppered with typos. It was terribly distracting, and, for essays that have appeared in print before this book, it seems like these errors should have been caught before the book was published. I hope future printings can eliminate these errors. As for the content, this book is fun, informative, and thought-provoking.
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| 44 (60) Intimate Invasion: The Erotic ins & Outs of Enema Play by M. R. Strict The book actually has two elements and I liked both. First, there is a lot of useful information on enemas-- how to give and take, solutions, positions, how they feel, safety tips. The information is sound,commonsensical, conservative and medically correct. Following it will keep newbies out of trouble and isn't a bad refresher for the experienced. I also like the author's discussion on ethical behavior for tops. Interspersed with the articles are some extremely well-written stories. As the author points out, some are fiction based from actual experiences. Others could be actual ...
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| 45 (66) Sensuous Magic 2 Ed: A Guide to S/M for Adventurous Couples by Patrick Califia This was my first book about BDSM. It's a well written book and allowed me to get a good foundation about lots of things. I really enjoy Patrick as an author (I have a number of his books) and I really like how his book is suitable for both straight AND gay/lesbian/queer folk. Regardless of what community you belong to this book is for you. I've checked out lots of other books on the market, gotta say most of them, and I would recommend this one the most for those people who are starting out. It's not overwhelming with information and presents things in a straightforward manner. Once you ...
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| 46 (63) Master/slave Relations: Communications 401 (M/s Series) by Robert Rubel PhD There is a big cry for materials about 24/7 Ds or Ms relationships now in the leather and kink communities. Thus this is a good introductory book on the ideas of communication, why if fails and how it can succeed. However this is not an advanced concept but a very basic and necessary one: you must have good communication for any relationship to succeed. There in is part of my reason for -1 star: it is basic. Secondly the vast majority of the information in this book is about any relationship not just Ds or Ms. Rubel does a great job of explaining various theories about and methods for ...
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| 47 (41) Uniquely Rika by Ms. Rika This book almost exactly expressed a male's subs needs in a D/s relationship. Some men are wired with the desire to please and serve and long for a woman to take advantage. This book will help express these needs to your female partner. Highly recommended. The male centric exercises are good building blocks for more creative activities.
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| 48 (48) When Someone You Love Is Kinky by Dossie Easton The title says it all, "when someone you love." It's written with love, for people who love and want to understand those they love. I've owned a copy for years and regularly give it to friends, when they're trying to understand an unfamiliar side of their loved ones. A gentle, generous book about communicating in a terrifying situation.
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| 49 (37) Leathersex: A Guide for the Curious Outsider and the Serious Player by Joseph W. Bean This is a "foundation book." A "must read." Joseph, one of the select few who have shaped the Leather culture in this country, wrote this timeless book in part so that those not (yet) involved in the Leather culture could develop a better understanding of what it is and how it works. But it is also intended for those of us who have some years of experience, here. For this book batches and sorts in ways that help us better to uderstand others with slightly different kinks. His chapter organizations are inspired and his writing style is easy to follow. As I've said: a "must read."
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| 50 (56) The Real Bettie Page: The Truth About the Queen of Pinups by Richard Foster This book spends most of the time dwelling on mundane facts of Bettie's life and explaining it in a bland way.
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| 51 (62) Come Hither: A Commonsense Guide To Kinky Sex by Gloria G. Brame This book helped me finally realize and admit to myself that I'm kinky. The way I grew up, the notion of being kinky was foreign and frightening, yet at heart I was kinky from childhood. That meant decades of not feeling good about myself and much unhappiness. This book helped change my thinking and did so in an entertaining and non-threatening way. Dr. Brame provides very practical information and asks non-judgmental, open-ended questions. In answering them, the light finally went on for me. This was a watershed book that was easy to read and entertaining, and as another reviewer noted, ...
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| 52 (30) The Pleasure's All Mine: Memoir of a Professional Submissive by Joan Kelly It's difficult for me to write this review, as I have no taste for s&m culture. So my eventual boredom with the book is probably more to do with my boredom with the lifestyle itself: you know the whips, the chains, the cuffs- *yawn* - paddles, spanking, safewords, the dungeons, the masters and mistresses...Zzzzz..... It really depends on what a reader has been exposed to. In the present day of internet kink, the basic stuff presented here (i.e. doing a no.1 while being watched, alternate entrances, hot candles with ice cubes, ice water, getting tied down, spanking, flogging) pales by ...
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| 53 (83) Consensual Spanking by Jules Markham The book explained most all aspects of sexual, erotic and sensual spanking in a clear and detailed manner. Spanking is a fetish or fantasy that can be extremely ebarrassing to those that are aroused by it. When it's consentual between a man and a woman, it can be a stimulating element of sexual foreplay.It does not promote brutality or pain. The book relaxes the reader and provides guidelines for those that have had a hidden interest in spanking.
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| 54 (68) First Hand: An Erotic Guide to Fisting (A Boner Book) by Tim Brough A few years ago I was introduced to fisting at a BDSM workshop, and have developed an interest in learning more. I have a knowledgeable mentor I have learned from, and have handballed a few times. Since my fisting journey has recently begun, I've experienced the amazing exchange of power and energy on multiple occasions. I wanted to read a book which would help me improve my understanding of the process and help guide me to be a better fister. I expected far more information on what it takes to be a successful top and bottom from a guide to fisting. According to my mentor, breathing ...
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| 55 (49) How to Capture a Mistress (M/s Studies Books) by Karen Martin I have never met Karen Martin but I do know her slave that she references in this book. On several occasions she mentions that he captured her and convinced her to be his mistress. Yet by the end of this book, I can't say I understand how he did that. Their story could have been an excellent illusion of how one man purposely pursued and won a dominant lady. The basic ideas are solid, the basic theories are good but repeatedly as I read and took notes I made the same notation: Give me more examples, information, references, and proofs. If the target audience is some man who wants a ...
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| 56 (67) Betty Page Confidential by Stan Corwin Productions I bought this for my husband and he is very pleased with it. She was one of his favorites. He has read the book several times now.
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| 57 (64) Play Piercing by Deborah Addington I received the book on time and in the condition advertised. It was exactly what I expected and I'm pleased with it. The information isn't too technical and it is relevent to the topic. It definitely meets my current needs and expectations.
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| 58 (-) The Dominant Goal Setting Journal by Shannon Reilly The Dominant's Goal-Setting Journal is designed to help those who identify as dominant, master, mistress, top, etc. set goals in conjunction with, for, and to support those who serve them. In this book you will find forms, suggestions, and processes to help you set goals, keep track of your progress, and assess your success. The book is broken into twelve sections so you can use it for a full year. The sections are not dated so you can begin your planning at any time during the year.
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| 59 (47) 21st Century Kinkycrafts by Janet W. Hardy there are a few interesting things in it, but it is not worth paying full price for. The illustrations are poor quality, but the instructions are fairly easy to follow. The only thing that redeems this book is the fact that it tells you how to make the finished product out of things that most people have around the house anyway.
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| 60 (-) Manual Creation: Defining the Structure of an M/s Household by Machele Kindle This was written by a person that has less then 5 years of experience, who went to a week-end class and then called herself a Dominant (P.16). Now she is giving bad information about subjects that she has little real knowledge about. For example, she has a chapter on a poly house without having ever had a poly house or any kind of poly experience (P.86). The author's idea of dominance is to domineer rather than to dominate (P.218). She is quoting an "online" dominant that admits to having only one year of online experience let along no real-time experience. She is extremely inconsistent in ...
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| 61 (86) Mistress Allure's Guide to Forbidden Eroticism for Adventurous Couples by Lawrence Elliot This is a very good starter book. Not intimidating at all and somewhat playful. I gave it 4 stars because I didn't get a chance to finish it yet, but there are some really good ideas in here.
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| 62 (58) The Toybag Guide to Age Play (Toybag Guides) by Lee Harrington This book is a good overview of ageplay in it's many forms. Lee writes in a clear tone, with great authority on this issue. Like all of the Toybag series, it will be of use to kinksters at any level of experience.
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| 63 (53) The Family Jewels: A Guide to Male Genital Play and Torment by Hardy Haberman Very simplistic yet informative. I would suggest it for any cbt beginner looking for a bit more information before taking that brave cock and ball busting leap! ~Winks~
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| 64 (91) Master Nage's Guide To Training Consensual Slaves by Master Nage I thought this book excellent for its insights into the psychological drives of those who would be slaves and the responsibility that the master has towards them. I have not seen such insights in any other book on the subject so I must give it five stars for that reason.
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| 65 (50) Radical Ecstasy: SM Journeys to Transcendence by Dossie Easton While our paths haven't crossed for many years I was fortunate to have met Dossie back when I was just beginning my BDSM exploration. Through the years her words have given me the courage to follow my own path when I had no role models; she continues to teach that WIITWD is more an expression of community than an edict. SM is for me a source of laughter, strength, growth and spirituality and I see my role as a sadist to be that of a healer more than anything else. This book reassures and illustrates that there is richness and depth to be found in heartfelt SM and few are as gifted as Janet and ...
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| 66 (80) Miss Abernathy's Concise Slave Training Manual by Christina Abernathy Is book explains the reality of D/S in a clear start-forward way, and by passes all the fluff; it's not about the sex it's about the experience. A must read for anyone interested in D/S, it explained the why of problems that I have seen in several D/S relationships (mine and others). Have I said enough, "GET THIS BOOK" if your interested in having a winning experience as a Dom or a Slave!!!!
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| 67 (-) Dances with Werewolves (Memoirs of a Spanking Model) by Niki Flynn A very well written book from the viewpoint of a submissive. Everyone interested in spanking should read it. It might even give you some new ideas.
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| 68 (-) Asia Bondage by Steven Speliotis There were probably half a dozen photos with compelling ropework; otherwise they're photos of women with rope draped over them and a few Lark's Heads on their arms & legs. The secondary theme for the book could be "Unrealized Potential" as there are so many missed opportunities for visually-interesting ties. The photos are well done from a technical standpoint, but offer very little from an aesthetic standpoint.
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| 69 (54) Diary of an S&M Romance by Dollie Llama Another reviewer captured one of my complaints when s/he referred to this as a "cutesy romance." I got tired of reading the endless e-mail full of "cutesy" chatter spoken in cat-talk. Especially since she was e-mailing from work while he e-mailed from home where he was working on his next art project. Don't expect this book to be a serious exploration of a D/s lifestyle...or maybe not an exploration of a serious D/s lifestyle. Of course, I'm complaining for the very reason you might suspect I am complaining. I wanted this book to be something other than what it is. I am in an "S&M romance" ...
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| 70 (70) Making Nylon Whips by Shannon Reilly The book showed only one way to approach the project and it wasn't one of the better methods. There wasn't much if any explanations of why something was done the way it was.
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| 71 (45) Flogging by Joseph W. Bean Excellent book, It was not only an informative read, but answered many questions for the beginner through scene and review. A MUST READ.
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| 72 (55) Ask the Man Who Owns Him: The real lives of gay Masters and slaves by david stein In 1996, in the 14th issue of the long gone Magazine "International Leatherman," David Stein guest edited and produced a volume that was strictly about real life Master and slave couples. Oddly enough, it was not one of the magazine's better selling volumes (frankly, no jo stories...), but it soon became a highly sought collector's issue. It laid out, in detail, that these folks not only existed, but they were RARELY similar. Over 10 years later, David revisits this idea on "Ask The Man Who Owns Him." While the criterion for inclusion in this book is similar (gay male couples identifying ...
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| 73 (78) The Toybag Guide To Foot And Shoe Worship by Midori I wanted to research the topic on foot fetish but didn't know where to start so I bought this book and was everything I needed to get started on my foot fetish research. It's for the starter foot fetishist to the most extreme. Offers great ideas for all foot fetishist from the sensual to the masochist. You can use the ideas and suggestions she offers for your own pleaure or with your lover. This book helps you to tap into the foot fetishist in all of us!
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| 74 (40) The Human Pony: a handbook for owners, trainers and admirers by Rebecca Wilcox An excellent guide for the potential Owner/Trainer. This is a subject that has interested me for many years, a subject I have avidly read up about, talked about and studied. Much to my surprise I learned a lot from this book. One day, soon I hope, I will be able to put into practice all that I have learned about pony girls. This book will have contributed greatly to my knowledge and ability as an Owner/Trainer.
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| 75 (96) Woof! Perspectives into the Erotic Care & Training of the Human Dog (Boner Books) by Michael Daniels KI have found this title to be very informative and helpful, It is a shame the site that the book was drawn from has closed down tho.
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| 76 (59) The Loving Dominant by John Warren this is a topaz book so it won't go on my reader; no way to cancel the purchase; got screwed by Amazon again...
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| 77 (-) The Toybag Guide to Erotic Knifeplay by Miranda Austin This book you can read in less than 30 minutes, maybe even 10 Minutes if you're a fast reader. It is definately an INTRO only for those who know nothing about knifeplay because it is very basic. Most of what is covered you could probably figure out with some common sense.
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| 78 (-) Painfully Obvious: An Irreverent & Unauthorized Manual for Leather/SM by Robert Davolt Whatever your opinion of the leather life style, this book will be an assist in understanding it. Witty and accurate, Davolt does what ever writer is told to do: Write about what you know. He does and eloquently. This is a subculture that is wider than may be thought and one of the more prominent in the gay community. Beyond that, it's a text book on how to run committees, events and contests. That he focuses on leather does not hinder his advice from being very applicable to every confused organizer everywhere. If only for his suggestions on how to fire volunteers, it's worth the cost. His ...
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| 79 (99) Alazar's Book of Bondage Vol 2 by Alazar The cover of this booklet alludes to more color artwork inside, which there is not. Although, the poses are repetitive, it does display a wide array of bondage themes. Overall, the black-and-white prints left me feeling as though I were looking through a coloring book for adults.
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| 80 (90) Training With Miss Abernathy: A Workbook for Erotic Slaves and Their Owners by Christina Abernathy I finally got my hands on a copy of this book. It was well worth the wait. I think it has some very good exercises in it for learning to notice the small details in pleasing your Master. It was an easy read, and not a book that I will be willing to part with anytime soon if ever. It is written in a Mistress tone and if you can overcome that you will be able to enjoy this book. I had hoped it would cover more of the discipline aspects in training slaves but it is still a great book.
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| 81 (79) This Curious Human Phenomenon: An Exploration of Some Uncommonly Explored Aspects of BDSM by Peter Masters OK, I'll admit that I'm a Peter Masters fan. Masters' The Control Book is another I consider a core-reading for any library on D/s or M/s relations. After spending a few chapters making sure we're all on the same page, Masters moves on to provide some truly insightful ideas. To my utter astonishment, reading Chapter 7 changed the way I kiss when involved in a power exchange setting. Chapter 12 prompted me to introduce a new pair of protocols that has vastly helped get my partner into the head-space she needs in order both to go to work in the mornings, and to come present with me when ...
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| 82 (82) Protocol Handbook for the Leather Slave: Theory and Practice by Robert J Rubel PhD A decade of M/s knowledge in one book Both books Master/slave Relations: Handbook of Theory and Practice and Protocol Handbook for the Leather Slave: Theory and Practice by Robert J. Rubel, PhD Cover the same subject with a slightly different focus. It amazes me that knowledge that took me years to learn is now available in 7 easy steps. The book can accelerate your journey into BDSM by a decade.
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| 83 (85) Bettie Page: Queen of Hearts by Jim Silke Jim Silke, an artist who has created many ravishing portraits of Bettie, in this book reflects on and tries perhaps to explain or at least describe some of the magic of this lady who was more than just another pin-up, more even than the queen of the pin-ups. There is a lot of nudity in this book. There are photos and illustrations. There are images that are not of Bettie. It's not a bio of Ms Page; it's not a history of Silke's work; it's not a tale of how American culture became more appreciative of the pulp side of creativity -- it's all of that, and more. I think that anyone who is ...
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| 84 (57) Flogging: The Basics and Beyond (SMTech Educational) by Joseph W Bean This book/video work so well because it allows you to actually see, as opposed to merely reading, how to properly flog as well as very important information when scening. Highly recommend for those just getting into, or curious about, flogging.
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| 85 (-) Flames of Passion: Handbook of Erotic Fire Play by David Walker For those who wish to learn the basic step-by-step lessons of fire play. Easy read, simple instructions, well thought out safety advice and insight. It was recommended to me, and I will absolutely recommend it to others.
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| 86 (61) The Submissive Goal Setting Journal by Shannon Reilly The Submissive's Goal-Setting Journal is designed to help those who identify as submissives, slaves, bottoms, etc. set goals in conjunction with those they serve. In this book you will find forms, suggestions, and processes to help you set goals, keep track of your progress, and assess your success. The book is broken into twelve sections so you can use it for a full year. The sections are not dated so you can begin your planning at any time during the year.
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| 87 (-) The Toybag Guide to Medical Play by Tempest I enjoyed this book thoroughly. Although not new to the medical fetish, Tempest's book is more in-depth than the shallow doctor-and-patient role-playing I have experienced so far. The information about setting up the scene and how to deal with a whiny submissive was very useful. Also, there was plenty of sound medical advice to help keep it safe, sane, and consensual. I only wish it had been longer!
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| 88 (-) Sex Tips from a Dominatrix by Patricia Payne I found the book intersting and funny. I foundit mor funny than anything else, thauthor has a good sense of humor.
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| 89 (98) How to Be a Dominant Diva by georgia Payne This book or guide I should say won't disappoint. It gives very good, practical ideas with some twists. What I liked most about it was some of the ideas in the book can be a little tame for my taste but offered ways to give them a fetish twist which I liked much more. For someone who is just testing their boundaries to getting off-the-charts erotic there is something meant for all. There was also a rating system in the book for each idea rating how much an idea could cost to weather there could be travel involved. These Diva's went all out. Quite a few things R and I have done already however ...
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| 90 (65) The Toybag Guide to Clips and Clamps by Jack Rinella This is a great little book. covers all the basic areas and shares some stories as well. the second best thing to a hands on class.
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| 91 (88) The Toybag Guide to Dungeon Emergencies and Supplies by Jay Wiseman No one likes to think about an SM scene going wrong, but the truth of the matter is that it happens. An important part of responsible SM play is being prepared for emergencies, and I know of no individual more qualified to provide education about such things than Jay Wiseman. Jay has been an SM practitioner for many years and is a veteran EMT. The advice in this book is practical and written in a clear and concise manner. I have given away copies of this book (and other books of Jay's), and will continue to do so. Other books he has authored show how to please a partner sexually, or to do ...
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| 92 (93) Fetish: Fashion, Sex & Power by Valerie Steele overall this book is very good, however it leaves out some important elements of fetishism and fetish culture. It pin points important elements of fetish and fashion, while skimming over the importance of emotions, trust, childhood,sex, power. When Steele addresses sex and power she uses a freudian approach. this is simply because steele's educational backround is limited to maintinly fasion history. The book is complete with fetish photos, and describes the history and evoltion of the fetish well. Steele, describes one fetish party that she has attended and makes assumptions about fetishes, ...
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| 93 (-) Erotic Power: An Exploration of Dominance & Submission by Gini Graham Scott The title, EroticPower: An exploration of Dominance andSubmission, while accurate is somewhat misleading. Its primaryemphasis is on the Female Dominant/male submissive area of what currently comes under the general heading of BDSM. Those who are seeking a broader overview of erotic power and its place in BDSM would be better served by reading one of the more current titles available. Originally published in 1980 and revised and updated in 1997, it still lacks in being a comprehensive overview of the subject of erotic power exchange due to its limited scope. At best I would suggest this only as ...
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| 94 (76) Female Dominance: Rituals And Practices by Claudia Varrin This book is a great comprehensive guide to the world of Female Domination. It really would be beneficial to a person at any level of experience. However, if you are really starting at square one, I would recommend a nuts and bolts guide to accompany this book. I would also recommend reading "The Art of Sensual Female Domination" also by Claudia Varrin.
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| 95 (51) More Family Jewels: Further Explorations in Male Genitorture (Boner Books) by Hardy Haberman I also own the first of these books. If you need more information on the topic this is an excellent place to get it. The fact that Hardy Haberman is a well respected member of the BDSM community also lends credibility to what's written inside. This man has TONS of experience with the subject matter. You're learning from one of the best when you buy this book! If you don't own the first Family Jewels book I'd highly recommend it also.
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| 96 (75) Partners in Power: Living in Kinky Relationships by Jack Rinella The book over all is fantastic, but I find it to be missing, or perhaps denying one rather large classification under "The Archetypes of SM Relationships". The chapter mentions Daddy/boy relationships but fails to mention anything about Daddy/girl relationships. I understand that there is a limited space in a book, but that is a really key piece of information in my opinion.
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| 97 (-) Fetish by David Bramwell This book was very good, details were right on and the examples were fantastic, however if this book could have been a bit longer with a bit more fetishes involved it would have been perfect. I highly recommend this for anyone interested in learning about fetishes.
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| 98 (81) To Love, to Obey, to Serve: Diary of an Old Guard Slave by V. M. Johnson As an Old Guard submissive, I was amazed by Vi Johnson's diary. I, too, am expected to keep a journal but the depth of mine does not compare to hers. Expectations differ by Dominant. While my Dominant does not expect me to construct a dungeon in Her home and would absolutely kill me if I were to turn to drugs, She does expect me to change in the ways She considers to be growth. This isn't easy but, after reading this book, I now appreciate how much my Dominant cares. I highly recommend this book to any submissive who thinks there's more to BDSM but doesn't know where to look.
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| 99 (97) Urban Aboriginals by Geoff Mains Today kinky people use terms like endorphins and tribe to describe what they do, but you know where those ideas came from? Geoff Mains was one of the first leathermen to take his vanilla career as a professional scientist, a biochemist, and turn his lens onto his sexuality. Today these ideas seem a bit old but this classic is something I highly recommend for anyone wanting to learn about leather history, gay leather culture, or ideas of biology and anthropology in relationship to kink. The culture Mains describes isn't always pretty, it isn't the cleaned up media picture, but it is an ...
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| 100 (-) Fetish Sex: An Erotic Guide for Couples by Violet Blue Violet Blue writes a fantastic book here! Details and examples, stories and everything. This book is a must have for anyone researching or just fascinated in fetishes.
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