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Based on the week ending Sat 6 Feb 2010

In association with Amazon.com, this is a weekly list of the one hundred best selling BDSM and Fetish non-fiction books. (We're starting to compile a list for BDSM fiction too.) The figures in brackets show the book's ranking in the previous week.

1 (1) The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures by Dossie Easton

While the book offers many humorous anecdotal examples of how polyamorous couples are able to successfully navigate the challenges of multi-partner pairing, I found the exercises that readers are supposed to complete with their partner(s) a bit lacking. In short, it is a useful tool for reinforcing or promoting the idea that it is not morally or biologically "better" to be strictly monogamous, but it is not the only literature to consider before making any lifestyle changes. Additionally, the topics of sexually transmitted infections and unwanted pregnancies are not treated with appropriate ...
 Amazon US: $16.99   Amazon UK: £16.50   Amazon FR: €14.17    Amazon DE: €13.97 

2 (3) Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism by Philip Miller

(this book is one of the best BDSM stater books) I thank you with how fast I received the book ,its in new condition also reading has opened many conversations between boyfriend and I. CeasonlySu thanks you
 Amazon US: $24.95   Amazon UK: £17.99   Amazon FR: €20.81    Amazon DE: €20.52 

3 (2) Two Knotty Boys Showing You The Ropes: A Step-by-Step, Illustrated Guide for Tying Sensual and Decorative Rope Bondage by Two Knotty Boys

This book is a great beginners book. For those of us that didn't learn all these knots in boyscouts, this is the best place to learn and improvise.
 Amazon US: $16.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €14.14    Amazon DE: €13.94 

4 (-) The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance by Mistress Lorelei

If you're a beginner, or have been doing this for a little while, and just never really understood it nor known anything about it, this manual is a must-have. I've been dominating my man punitively for about 2 years, and everything we'd done almost every day, came naturally. I never really knew the specific differences between a Queen or a Goddess, or Amazon and Governess. Basically it was time I educated myself as to who I am, and who I can be, to fulfill my innermost fantasies, and his. This got my creative juices flowing, and sometimes us dommes need that, as we're responsible and in ...
 Amazon US: $16.95   Amazon UK: £13.99   Amazon FR: €14.14    Amazon DE: €13.94 

5 (4) SM 101: A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman

Had this book for a few weeks and I'm on my 3rd read :) There is a huge amount of info in here and I would suggest reading it at least twice, you will pick up things you missed or read over the first time. The author does a great job delivering content in a clear, black and white, pros and cons style, then injects their opinions based on experience. Experience I find is the best teacher! It covers everything, from toys, to props, clothing, techniques, and even gives safety guidelines such as safety words and the importance of having "emergency release" systems. It even tells you how to make ...
 Amazon US: $24.95   Amazon UK: £18.99   Amazon FR: €20.81    Amazon DE: €20.52 

6 (7) The Control Book by Peter Masters

This book would make for a great discussion piece but doesn't actually look into the psychological methods control in the manner I was hoping. it's very much based on Jungian archetypes but doesn't delve into behavioral studies as I was hoping it would. That said if you read this with your pet and think it through it is still a very worth while read- although too expensive for how thin the material is.
 Amazon US: $16.95   Amazon UK: £11.49   Amazon FR: €14.78    Amazon DE: €13.94 

7 (5) Two Knotty Boys Back on the Ropes by Two Knotty Boys

Back on the Ropes is a better quality book than the first book, With colour photography ( by Ken Marcus) that helps everyone to tie knots safely, something they always emphasize.
 Amazon US: $22.00   Amazon UK: £16.99   Amazon FR: €18.35    Amazon DE: €18.09 

8 (9) Burlesque and the Art of the Teese/Fetish and the Art of the Teese by Dita Von Teese

I did't buy this book on amazon, however I saw it sitting on the shelf during my visit in Maine at a local book store. What caught my attention was the Burlesque side of the book. Dita Von Teese is truly the modern day pin up girl. This book, reversible between burlesque and fetish, is informative on both topics, has a direct link to what it is like to live this life with page after page of colorful photographs of the lady herself. A great coffee table book and something to hold on to. I've had mine for 4 years and it is in fabulous condition.
 Amazon US: $39.95   Amazon UK: £25.00   Amazon FR: €33.32    Amazon DE: €32.23 

9 (8) The Loving Dominant by John Warren

this is a topaz book so it won't go on my reader; no way to cancel the purchase; got screwed by Amazon again...
 Amazon US: $16.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €14.14    Amazon DE: €13.88 

10 (10) The Art Of Sensual Female Dominance: A Guide for Women by Claudia Varrin

The Art of Sensual Female Dominance is Claudia Varrin's introduction and guidebook into the sexual realm where women are in charge. Varrin writes primarily for female readers who have an interest in dominating their sexual partners, but have little or no experience. Legions of would-be male submissives will attest that convincing a girlfriend to experiment with domination is diffi¬cult, if not impossible. Ms. Varrin's engaging style makes the notion of taking the reins in hand not only appealing, but incredi¬bly romantic and, perhaps, most important, fun. Chapters address virtually every ...
 Amazon US: $15.95   Amazon UK: £10.99   Amazon FR: €13.31    Amazon DE: €13.12 

11 (6) The New Bottoming Book by Janet W. Hardy

This book reads like a one long reassurance. Oh dearest reader, what you've been fantasizing about isn't as weird as you think. In fact, my dear, I think it's wonderful and I'm so proud you're finally admitting it to yourself! This book doesn't have much to offer someone who is already comfortable with the thought that his/her sexual desires involve submission. The authors describe what goes on in the minds of bottoms (like to submit) and tops (like to control). They offer a lot of commonsensey stuff about negotiating your limits before a scene (the authors suggest using email, for ...
 Amazon US: $14.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €12.47    Amazon DE: €12.29 

12 (18) How to be Kinky: A Beginner's Guide to BDSM by Morpheous

I haven't finished reading this book yet but I am pretty far into it and I love all the tips and suggestions for role-plays in it. I bought it for my Master but I have been the one reading and marking it. I know from just looking at it online that I already loved it. ;) I highly recommend this. Very professional and love all the pictures it includes.
 Amazon US: $16.95   Amazon UK: £12.99   Amazon FR: €14.14    Amazon DE: €16.74 

13 (13) The Master's Manual: A Handbook of Erotic Dominance by Jack Rinella

This book is nothing more than a list of every OTHER book the author has ever read on the subject. I expected information and instead each chapter is a review of someone else's book. Unless u need a list of bdsm books save ur money and buy something else. There are no gems of wisdom. Instead the author tells stories about what he learned from reading such and such book. It actually started to peak my interest as to whether or not the author was getting a cut of the royalties from the books he was recommending. Save ur money n look elsewhere.
 Amazon US: $15.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €13.31    Amazon DE: €13.12 

14 (12) Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission by William Brame

this was a great first experience with amazon. my product was mailed to mein a very timely manner and arrived exactly the way it was promised. have already ordered my second book. the book is just what i was looking for. gave me the information i needed. thank you.
 Amazon US: $22.95   Amazon UK: £22.95   Amazon FR: €19.14    Amazon DE: €18.87 

15 (21) Jay Wiseman's Erotic Bondage Handbook by Jay Wiseman

title says it all: i was expecting lots of pictures anf very few text. it turned out to be exactly the opposite, very much text and very few drawn images. I wouldn't recomend this book.
 Amazon US: $16.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €14.14    Amazon DE: €13.94 

16 (11) Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé by Lee "Bridgett" Harrington

I ordered this book for my Love. She was wanting to get into more intense rope sessions and this book did not disappoint Her! i was only allowed to look at the cover of the book but She said it was very informative, and funny. She really liked the writer's sense of humor. She would recommend this book to anyone wanting to learn more intricate rope bondage techniques.
 Amazon US: $21.99   Amazon UK: £16.50   Amazon FR: €18.34    Amazon DE: €18.08 

17 (17) Erotic Surrender: The Sensual Joys of Female Submission by Claudia Varrin

As an "interested", I was looking for some books to get more serious and realistic information about the BD/SM culture and what the various practices really were (not what I imagined them to be). This book I found to be very well written by a woman who obviously know what she's talking about. She explains things in clear, simple, real and easy to understand language, and shares her own experiences. Through this book I was able to understand much more about this life-style, and about my own fascination with it. It helped to relativate some of my own misperceptions and prejudices and to ...
 Amazon US: $15.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €14.23    Amazon DE: €13.12 

18 (31) Bondage For Sex by Chanta Rose

I don't know what it is about S/M that fascinates me, but this one is really the best one on the subject of the Do's Don't's of bondage, me & my ex engaged in this practice a lot when we were married, & it has to be done right in order to get the maximum benefit of the act itself, Chanta Rose is one you can trust on this subject simply because she herself has been on the giving & recieving end of this practice, I have seen enough of her pictures on the Internet to know this to be true, there are lots of books on this subject, but this one is the best one I have read so far on the subject & ...
 Amazon US: $31.95   Amazon UK: £22.99   Amazon FR: €26.65    Amazon DE: €26.28 

19 (14) The Sexually Dominant Woman: A Workbook for Nervous Beginners by Lady Green

Not exactly new information, I still learned a lot. For those of us exploring new sides of our sensuality it is an excellent primer. I'd always been curious...and perhaps even more. Now I want to experience. Thanks for the starting point. I'm a lot less nervous about experimenting and a lot more eager to test the waters.
 Amazon US: $11.95   Amazon UK: £8.99   Amazon FR: €9.97    Amazon DE: €9.83 

20 (20) Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders by Lucy Fairbourne

I bought the book for additional information, in particular more insight into the psyche of one that wants to be chaste. I found the book seemed to be written mostly with the novice in mind or as one reviewer wrote a "vanilla wife". The book also focuses on hygiene (very important for long term), benefits of chasting him, being a confident woman and building an ultimately submissive male. All around a very informative book/guide.
 Amazon US: $14.95   Amazon UK: £10.00   Amazon FR: €13.07    Amazon DE: €12.89 

21 (26) Female Domination by Elise Sutton

This book is possibly the most dangerous book ever written. While passionately devised, it was only that of a disappointment (not to mention her sub-standard use of grammar and the English language). The very things Mrs. Sutton is against: male chauvenism, male superiority, and male dominance--are the very things her book PERPETUATES in society, due to her blind hypocrisy in supporting such destructive behavior in women. Mrs. Sutton's definition of a "loving woman" is to endanger the health of her man, to imprison his free will, and to permanently wreak havoc on his finances and ...
 Amazon US: $29.98   Amazon UK: £18.80   Amazon FR: €25.01    Amazon DE: €24.66 

22 (16) Protocols: A Variety of Views: Power Exchange Books' Resource Series (Power Exchange Books Resource Series) by Robert Rubel PhD

This is a very interesting book for readers who live in or are considering living in a structured relationship -- TPE, M/s. It presents eight 3,500 word essays on how each of these people, both Masters and slaves, use or view protocols. The writers are mostly nationally known presenters at weekend Leather conferences. This book is an interesting perspective on Leather protocols as presented by Dr. Robert Rubel in his book: "Protocols for the Female slave: Handbook of theory and practice".
 Amazon US: $9.95   Amazon UK: £8.99   Amazon FR: €10.99    Amazon DE: €8.56 

23 (15) The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage by Midori

Aware of Midori by reputation, a good buddy gifted me with this book. It contains many fine photographs by Craig Morey, of subjects alien and pristine, artfully staged, with occasional flashes of the passion one associates with the images of, say, Imogen Cunningham or Ed Weston. Morey is already noteworthy. I went onward to the text. Midori is in serious need of an editor. The instructions are obtuse and convoluted, as though Midori does not truly wish us to learn how to the tie the knots, but rather, to revel in the mystery and enchantment with which Midori adorns herself. She writes, "For ...
 Amazon US: $27.95   Amazon UK: £19.99   Amazon FR: €23.22    Amazon DE: €22.90 

24 (28) You Know You Love It : Lessons in Sexual Mischief by Ilona Paris

This book looked like it might be a fun read. It was tedious instead. First, the print is lavender or purple. The main text is the lighter color, and contrast to the white page is about as bad as it gets. The darker ink is saved for these little billboards of tips and suggestions that are overused, repetitive, and mostly boring. Maybe someone who as absolutely no clue about power exchange or alternative sexual practices might find this intriguing and informative, but if not, you aren't going to find out anything new here. If it was written in an entertaining way, it could have been worth the ...
 Amazon US: $22.95   Amazon UK: £15.56   Amazon FR: €20.01    Amazon DE: €19.73 

25 (23) Look Into My Eyes: How To Use Hypnosis To Bring Out The Best In Your Sex Life by Peter Masters

If your looking for a book to aid you in seducing young maidens; this is not the book for you. This is a well written handbook for those who have a understanding of hypnosis, that wish to expand their knowledge to use it in the bedroom. The author will tell you right at the beginning that this takes two willing partispants to use this book. So all you misguided deviants beware of wasting your money trying to seduce women by purchasing this book.
 Amazon US: $16.95   Amazon UK: £11.49   Amazon FR: €14.78    Amazon DE: €13.94 

26 (30) Master/slave Relations: Handbook of Theory and Practice (M/s Studies Books) by Robert J Rubel PhD

This is a great book, a "must have" for any BDSM library.. Love the work, keep in mind He is writing from lst person experience.
 Amazon US: $19.95   Amazon UK: £14.99   Amazon FR: €18.99    Amazon DE: €17.15 

27 (25) The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities by Dossie Easton

A hands-on guide to living a life full of sex, love and intimate friendship: it's the best instruction manual, not just for people interested in polyamory, but for people who enjoy monogamy. It's about centering yourself and finding what you want for more fulfillment in relationships in general. Incredible book!
 Amazon US: $16.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €14.14    Amazon DE: €15.46 

28 (35) The Compleat Slave: Creating And Living An Erotic Dominant/submissive Lifestyle by Jack Rinella

It took awhile for the item to get to me. I had it by the estimated delivery date in as much as at the very end of that timeline although I received shipping confirmation long before that. The book was in new condition as promised though and ultimately I was somewhat pleased overall. I would order from this seller again so long as I wasnt expecting the item to be delivered quickly.
 Amazon US: $15.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €13.31    Amazon DE: €13.12 

29 (39) SlaveCraft: Roadmaps for Erotic Servitude--Principles, Skills and Tools by Guy Baldwin

i bought this book a couple of years ago, whilst on my on path/quest (call it what you will) for truth in what i was looking for. there is a lot confusion within our community about what does exist, what doesn't exist, what is real and not real, what is fact, what is fiction. for those searching for a deeper meaning to their life and a reason for the existence of the feelings they have, this book helps to clear the skies of such confusing (and often heated) discourse and help plot a course forwards. the book is clearly written, and is a real gem. if i ever had the opportunity to contact or ...
 Amazon US: $15.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €13.91    Amazon DE: €15.10 

30 (24) The Better Built Bondage Book: A Complete Guide to Making Your Own Sex Toys, Furniture and BDSM Equipment by Douglas Kent

This book contains many ideas for toys and easy-to-use instructions on how to make them. It also includes hints, tips and warnings about how to do things and what not to do.
 Amazon US: $39.95   Amazon UK: £28.99   Amazon FR: €32.51    Amazon DE: €36.39 

31 (22) Erotic Slavehood: A Miss Abernathy Omnibus by Christina Abernathy

This book is a "must have" addition to any BDSM library. Has a few misspelled words, but ignore and look at the timeless content.
 Amazon US: $15.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €13.31    Amazon DE: €13.12 

32 (19) The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton

Written by two Lesbians it seems to offer Topping from a Female view. Yes Virginia all Doms are not created equal. Yet in the real world the vast majority are MALES. It's cutsy, cutsy manor of writing get's old quick. It is NOT a how to book. Little attention is paid the the actual scene. Rather it concentrates on responsibilities of a Top and safety. I agree for the newbie these can NOT be overemphasized!! When one takes control of another the submissive/slave gives their all into your hands so, for me, Job one is to put YOUR wants/needs/desires on a low shelf and create an ...
 Amazon US: $14.95   Amazon UK: £10.99   Amazon FR: €12.47    Amazon DE: €12.29 

33 (47) Ropes, Bondage, and Power: Power Exchange Books' Resource Series by Lee Harrington

There is no other book currently in print that covers such a wide range of topics for rope enthusiasts. There are many extraordinary rope books in print, but they are almost exclusively guides to how one goes about learning this art. Said differently, virtually all the rope books in print are meant to help readers learn the how of rope bondage. That?s not what this book does. This book shares the views of seventeen prominent riggers as they explain the why of their art. This book is about the power of rope. This book is also about the power exchange aspect of rope. Even more that ...
 Amazon US: $19.95   Amazon UK: £13.99   Amazon FR: €16.95    Amazon DE: €16.34 

34 (29) The Submissive Activity Book: Building Blocks To Better Service by Shannon Reilly

Another worthless book. There is nothing in this book that anyone with a bit of common sense shouldn't already know. In her book Creating a Personal Protocol, this author gave us a collection of blank, lined pages masquerading as a book and this is just more of the same. If you enjoy spending almost $20 for a blank tablet then go for it. Otherwise don't waste your time or money. This author is doing a huge disservice to the BDSM community by not providing any meaningful instruction while charging an excessive price. A total rip-off.
 Amazon US: $18.95   Amazon UK: £12.24   Amazon FR: €15.81    Amazon DE: €15.58 

35 (36) Creating A Personal Protocol by Shannon Reilly

This book is totally worthless. A complete rip-off and a disservice to the entire BDSM lifestyle community. The book consists of fewer than 25 pages of very uninformative text. The remainder of the book is blank lined pages. Nothing more than a collection of blank pages. Any person could learn more by simply talking to a member of the BDSM community for less than the 15 minutes it takes to read this piece of trash.
 Amazon US: $12.95   Amazon UK: £8.78   Amazon FR: €11.29    Amazon DE: €11.13 

36 (67) Leathersex: A Guide for the Curious Outsider and the Serious Player by Joseph W. Bean

This is a "foundation book." A "must read." Joseph, one of the select few who have shaped the Leather culture in this country, wrote this timeless book in part so that those not (yet) involved in the Leather culture could develop a better understanding of what it is and how it works. But it is also intended for those of us who have some years of experience, here. For this book batches and sorts in ways that help us better to uderstand others with slightly different kinks. His chapter organizations are inspired and his writing style is easy to follow. As I've said: a "must read."
 Amazon US: $16.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €14.14    Amazon DE: €13.94 

37 (55) Protocols: Handbook for the female slave by Robert J. Rubel

Reviewed by Chris Phillips This book is specifically applicable to persons engaged in or considering an informed, mutually consenting Master/slave (M/s) relationship. For those reading this that are outside of the Bondage Domination Sado-Masochism (BDSM) community the book provides a practioner's view of how this dynamic is lived. For readers who are part of the BDSM community, this provides practical and personal guidelines in constructing and maintaining a vital M/s relationship. Rubel defines his terms in the introduction and provides enough background to lay a solid groundwork. Rubel ...
 Amazon US: $19.95   Amazon UK: £14.99   Amazon FR: €18.99    Amazon DE: €15.99 

38 (82) Sensuous Magic 2 Ed: A Guide to S/M for Adventurous Couples by Patrick Califia

This was my first book about BDSM. It's a well written book and allowed me to get a good foundation about lots of things. I really enjoy Patrick as an author (I have a number of his books) and I really like how his book is suitable for both straight AND gay/lesbian/queer folk. Regardless of what community you belong to this book is for you. I've checked out lots of other books on the market, gotta say most of them, and I would recommend this one the most for those people who are starting out. It's not overwhelming with information and presents things in a straightforward manner. Once you ...
 Amazon US: $14.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €12.42    Amazon DE: €15.05 

39 (64) Radical Ecstasy: SM Journeys to Transcendence by Dossie Easton

This book, to me, is the authors' wonderful and very personal journey of transcendent experiences via SM. If you think of it as reading a memoir, instead of trying to learn something you'll enjoy it much more. A very brave piece of writing. Thank you for putting yourselves out there so openly.
 Amazon US: $16.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €14.78    Amazon DE: €13.88 

40 (56) Dark Moon Rising: Pagan BDSM and the Ordeal Path by Raven Kaldera

Raven's grasp of the nuances of the spiritual aspect of the path is exceptional. The Ordeal path is one which is traveled alone,for many. This book is a wonderful message telling those who do travel the path that they are not alone and it validates their calling.
 Amazon US: $26.83   Amazon UK: £16.82   Amazon FR: €26.81    Amazon DE: €22.21 

41 (38) Betty Page Confidential by Stan Corwin Productions

I bought this for my husband and he is very pleased with it. She was one of his favorites. He has read the book several times now.
 Amazon US: $16.95   Amazon UK: £9.99   Amazon FR: €14.14    Amazon DE: €12.88 

42 (42) The Family Jewels: A Guide to Male Genital Play and Torment by Hardy Haberman

Great book, it goes into total detail about what to do and how to do it safely!
 Amazon US: $12.95   Amazon UK: £9.99   Amazon FR: €10.80    Amazon DE: €10.65 

43 (37) When Someone You Love Is Kinky by Dossie Easton

This book was a psychobabble point of view at "kinky" people.It's a "how to" on dealing with a loved one who has kinks as if they were odd balls or sick or something... I returned this book.
 Amazon US: $15.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €13.31    Amazon DE: €13.12 

44 (33) Ask the Man Who Owns Him: The real lives of gay Masters and slaves by david stein

Nothing this important has been written for the gay BDSM world since the Leatherman's Handbook first came out. This book is built around a collection of interviews with gay Masters and their slaves. It provides a fascinating glimpse into a world most people never encounter except through porn - and this shows us just how far the reality is from porn. These are real men, warts and all. There is much that is extremely honest and revealing here, but nothing pornographic - it is about how these men have managed to build and maintain their lives in a way that makes sense to them. One of the ...
 Amazon US: $19.95   Amazon UK: £12.95   Amazon FR: €16.96    Amazon DE: €16.31 

45 (52) The Femdom Experience by Elise Sutton

Elise Sutton is back with a sequel to her underground bestseller, Female Domination: An exploration of the male desire for Loving Female Authority. Her new non-fiction book is titled, The FemDom Experience, and it's a collection of personal stories from people who have participated and lived the Female Domination lifestyle as a reality. The book is divided into three sections that deal with the professional dominatrix, FemDom relationships, and FemDom groups. First, however, are a preface and introduction that delve into the growing phenomenon of Female Domination and its affect on ...
 Amazon US: $29.98   Amazon UK: £18.80   Amazon FR: €25.01    Amazon DE: €24.66 

46 (27) Domestic Discipline by Jules Markham

I found this book intriguing. I read it before giving it to my Master and now he is reading it. I love the ideas presented here, even if they often made me blush. If you can apply the book's concepts to your relationship, you should. For me it's been so far, so good!
 Amazon US: $18.99   Amazon UK: £9.99   Amazon FR: €16.56    Amazon DE: €12.58 

47 (43) The Real Bettie Page: The Truth About the Queen of Pinups by Richard Foster

I used this book for my school reading log. It was very interesting and fun to read!!! It arrived in mint condition and I am very satisfied =]
 Amazon US: $14.95   Amazon UK: £10.99   Amazon FR: €12.47    Amazon DE: €12.29 

48 (51) How to Capture a Mistress (M/s Studies Books) by Karen Martin

I have never met Karen Martin but I do know her slave that she references in this book. On several occasions she mentions that he captured her and convinced her to be his mistress. Yet by the end of this book, I can't say I understand how he did that. Their story could have been an excellent illusion of how one man purposely pursued and won a dominant lady. The basic ideas are solid, the basic theories are good but repeatedly as I read and took notes I made the same notation: Give me more examples, information, references, and proofs. If the target audience is some man who wants a ...
 Amazon US: $19.95   Amazon UK: £14.99   Amazon FR: €18.99    Amazon DE: €16.71 

49 (94) The Pleasure's All Mine: Memoir of a Professional Submissive by Joan Kelly

I liked this book for its honesty and insight into the writers desires and her subsequent search to fulfill them. Great book, definitely would recommend.
 Amazon US: $14.95   Amazon UK: £8.99   Amazon FR: €12.47    Amazon DE: €11.58 

50 (41) The Human Pony: a handbook for owners, trainers and admirers by Rebecca Wilcox

An excellent guide for the potential Owner/Trainer. This is a subject that has interested me for many years, a subject I have avidly read up about, talked about and studied. Much to my surprise I learned a lot from this book. One day, soon I hope, I will be able to put into practice all that I have learned about pony girls. This book will have contributed greatly to my knowledge and ability as an Owner/Trainer.
 Amazon US: $27.95   Amazon UK: £19.99   Amazon FR: €23.31    Amazon DE: €22.99 

51 (60) A Hand in the Bush: The Fine Art of Vaginal Fisting by Deborah Addington

This book is fine for beginners, but it doesn't really tell you anything you can't learn from your own experimentation. I was looking for tips on new things to do once I have my fist in my wife, and didn't find any. It emphasizes the need for artificial lubrication when in fact we have found that natural lubrication from earlier foreplay is quite adequate. It makes you wonder if the author does nothing but go straight to fisting without any "warmup." Also, it is completely focused on fisting as a lesbian act, rather than a heterosexual one. Contains a lot of filler like some useless poetry.
 Amazon US: $13.95   Amazon UK: £8.99   Amazon FR: €11.64    Amazon DE: €11.47 

52 (34) Power Exchange Books: The Art of Slavery by Robert Rubel

It was a bunch of short stories about the opinions of real time slaves. i can get that at any munch group. and the four dollar shipping kills me. It isnt worth the paper its printed on. Feel free to save your pennies for jack rinella or jay wiseman instead.Merry meet, and see ya later. Have fun in the dungeon .
 Amazon US: $9.95   Amazon UK: £7.99   Amazon FR: €10.99    Amazon DE: €8.18 

53 (32) Come Hither: A Commonsense Guide To Kinky Sex by Gloria G. Brame

This book helped me finally realize and admit to myself that I'm kinky. The way I grew up, the notion of being kinky was foreign and frightening, yet at heart I was kinky from childhood. That meant decades of not feeling good about myself and much unhappiness. This book helped change my thinking and did so in an entertaining and non-threatening way. Dr. Brame provides very practical information and asks non-judgmental, open-ended questions. In answering them, the light finally went on for me. This was a watershed book that was easy to read and entertaining, and as another reviewer noted, ...
 Amazon US: $14.00   Amazon UK: £11.00   Amazon FR: €14.38    Amazon DE: €11.51 

54 (40) Consensual Sadomasochism : How to Talk About It and How to Do It Safely by William A. Henkin

If you are exploring the lifestyle, this book is a good general overview of what to expect. But, as with any "how to" book, real life experiences vary. This book is very explicit and informative. It is tastefully written to inform the reader, not tantilize. The book accomplishes its objective.
 Amazon US: $17.95   Amazon UK: £12.99   Amazon FR: €15.65    Amazon DE: €14.39 

55 (58) Master/slave Relations: Communications 401 (M/s Series) by Robert Rubel PhD

There is a big cry for materials about 24/7 Ds or Ms relationships now in the leather and kink communities. Thus this is a good introductory book on the ideas of communication, why if fails and how it can succeed. However this is not an advanced concept but a very basic and necessary one: you must have good communication for any relationship to succeed. There in is part of my reason for -1 star: it is basic. Secondly the vast majority of the information in this book is about any relationship not just Ds or Ms. Rubel does a great job of explaining various theories about and methods for ...
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56 (45) Mistress Allure's Guide to Forbidden Eroticism for Adventurous Couples by Lawrence Elliot

This is a very good starter book. Not intimidating at all and somewhat playful. I gave it 4 stars because I didn't get a chance to finish it yet, but there are some really good ideas in here.
 Amazon US: $19.95   Amazon UK: £14.99   Amazon FR: €18.99    Amazon DE: €14.57 

57 (61) Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink Educational, Sensual, And Entertaining Essays by Midori

I'd like to say first that I like Midori a lot. I met her several months ago when I took one of her workshops. She's a pretty classy lady with a lot of style, and I enjoy her writing quite a bit. However, I was very disappointed to find this book peppered with typos. It was terribly distracting, and, for essays that have appeared in print before this book, it seems like these errors should have been caught before the book was published. I hope future printings can eliminate these errors. As for the content, this book is fun, informative, and thought-provoking.
 Amazon US: $18.00   Amazon UK: £12.99   Amazon FR: €15.01    Amazon DE: €14.80 

58 (66) Female Dominance: Rituals And Practices by Claudia Varrin

This book is a great comprehensive guide to the world of Female Domination. It really would be beneficial to a person at any level of experience. However, if you are really starting at square one, I would recommend a nuts and bolts guide to accompany this book. I would also recommend reading "The Art of Sensual Female Domination" also by Claudia Varrin.
 Amazon US: $15.95   Amazon UK: £10.99   Amazon FR: €13.25    Amazon DE: €13.36 

59 (53) This Curious Human Phenomenon: An Exploration of Some Uncommonly Explored Aspects of BDSM by Peter Masters

OK, I'll admit that I'm a Peter Masters fan. Masters' The Control Book is another I consider a core-reading for any library on D/s or M/s relations. After spending a few chapters making sure we're all on the same page, Masters moves on to provide some truly insightful ideas. To my utter astonishment, reading Chapter 7 changed the way I kiss when involved in a power exchange setting. Chapter 12 prompted me to introduce a new pair of protocols that has vastly helped get my partner into the head-space she needs in order both to go to work in the mornings, and to come present with me when ...
 Amazon US: $19.95   Amazon UK: £14.99   Amazon FR: €18.99    Amazon DE: €16.41 

60 (76) The Toybag Guide To Foot And Shoe Worship by Midori

I wanted to research the topic on foot fetish but didn't know where to start so I bought this book and was everything I needed to get started on my foot fetish research. It's for the starter foot fetishist to the most extreme. Offers great ideas for all foot fetishist from the sensual to the masochist. You can use the ideas and suggestions she offers for your own pleaure or with your lover. This book helps you to tap into the foot fetishist in all of us!
 Amazon US: $9.95   Amazon UK: £6.99   Amazon FR: €8.30    Amazon DE: €8.18 

61 (57) More Family Jewels: Further Explorations in Male Genitorture (Boner Books) by Hardy Haberman

I also own the first of these books. If you need more information on the topic this is an excellent place to get it. The fact that Hardy Haberman is a well respected member of the BDSM community also lends credibility to what's written inside. This man has TONS of experience with the subject matter. You're learning from one of the best when you buy this book! If you don't own the first Family Jewels book I'd highly recommend it also.
 Amazon US: $19.95   Amazon UK: £14.99   Amazon FR: €18.99    Amazon DE: €17.15 

62 (50) Play Piercing by Deborah Addington

I received the book on time and in the condition advertised. It was exactly what I expected and I'm pleased with it. The information isn't too technical and it is relevent to the topic. It definitely meets my current needs and expectations.
 Amazon US: $13.95   Amazon UK: £9.99   Amazon FR: €11.59    Amazon DE: €11.18 

63 (49) Diary of an S&M Romance by Dollie Llama

Another reviewer captured one of my complaints when s/he referred to this as a "cutesy romance." I got tired of reading the endless e-mail full of "cutesy" chatter spoken in cat-talk. Especially since she was e-mailing from work while he e-mailed from home where he was working on his next art project. Don't expect this book to be a serious exploration of a D/s lifestyle...or maybe not an exploration of a serious D/s lifestyle. Of course, I'm complaining for the very reason you might suspect I am complaining. I wanted this book to be something other than what it is. I am in an "S&M romance" ...
 Amazon US: $14.00   Amazon UK: £8.00   Amazon FR: €11.68    Amazon DE: €10.08 

64 (-) My Private Life: Real Experiences of a Dominant Woman by Mistress Nan

I read this book and then I read it again and again. each time, it made Me cry.... it was beautiful!
 Amazon US: $16.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €14.78    Amazon DE: €13.58 

65 (46) Uniquely Rika by Ms. Rika

Ms. Rika's succinct text offers a fresh take on loving, lifestyle female dominant relationships. By showing how true service can ease the life of the woman, while identifying "conventional" BDSM play as "male-centric activity", she shows how to structure the female-dominant relationship so that the needs of both partners are met. It's a brilliant book that I've read more than once, and one that I'm now reading to my wife for her own enjoyment.
 Amazon US: $29.95   Amazon UK: £22.50   Amazon FR: €24.98    Amazon DE: €24.63 

66 (78) Ties That Bind: The SM/Leather/Fetish Erotic Style: Issues, Commentaries and Advice by Guy Baldwin

Mr. Baldwin should stick to writing guides to leather pageants and give up the authoritative attitude and know all approach to his book. My newest boy brought his book to my attention and we had belly laughs at all the rules that are based in an authority that is constricting and overwhelming in the obvious attempt to impress. This paper thin treatise did not impress or inform. Like many other "dominate" men in leather I think I am safe in saying that the printed word is not where one is the best teacher. I am saddened that it didn't offer a more common sense approach and practical guidance.
 Amazon US: $16.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €14.14    Amazon DE: €15.46 

67 (73) Dances with Werewolves (Memoirs of a Spanking Model) by Niki Flynn

A very well written book from the viewpoint of a submissive. Everyone interested in spanking should read it. It might even give you some new ideas.
 Amazon US: $12.95   Amazon UK: £7.99   Amazon FR: €10.45    Amazon DE: €10.30 

68 (68) Flogging by Joseph W. Bean

This ia a great book for anyone interested in taking care of their investment in good leather toys.
 Amazon US: $11.95   Amazon UK: £9.99   Amazon FR: €9.97    Amazon DE: €9.83 

69 (90) Soaked! The Watersports Handbook for Men (A Boner Book) by Joseph W. Bean

This is an excellent book for the M/s groups to learn more about true watersports from its source.
 Amazon US: $16.95   Amazon UK: £12.99   Amazon FR: €16.99    Amazon DE: €13.79 

70 (-) Juice: Electricity for Pleasure and Pain by Uncle Abdul

Book reviews are a product of expectation. I anticipated that one would be able to read the book, study the concepts, and be in a position to make my own electrical stimulation toys. While the book certainly starts out well with very understandable explanations of electrical principles, and is big on electrical safety, it ends with a limited number of recommendations for apparati that are already on the market; some of which could be difficult to obtain (medical applications). There is no mention of devices that have previously been available, but are no longer found. There is no ...
 Amazon US: $11.95   Amazon UK: £9.99   Amazon FR: €9.97    Amazon DE: €9.83 

71 (86) Bettie Page: Queen of Hearts by Jim Silke

Jim Silke, an artist who has created many ravishing portraits of Bettie, in this book reflects on and tries perhaps to explain or at least describe some of the magic of this lady who was more than just another pin-up, more even than the queen of the pin-ups. There is a lot of nudity in this book. There are photos and illustrations. There are images that are not of Bettie. It's not a bio of Ms Page; it's not a history of Silke's work; it's not a tale of how American culture became more appreciative of the pulp side of creativity -- it's all of that, and more. I think that anyone who is ...
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72 (97) Alazar's Book of Bondage Vol 2 by Alazar

The cover of this booklet alludes to more color artwork inside, which there is not. Although, the poses are repetitive, it does display a wide array of bondage themes. Overall, the black-and-white prints left me feeling as though I were looking through a coloring book for adults.
 Amazon US: $9.95   Amazon UK: £6.99   Amazon FR: €8.30    Amazon DE: €8.18 

73 (-) The Toybag Guide to Dungeon Emergencies and Supplies by Jay Wiseman

No one likes to think about an SM scene going wrong, but the truth of the matter is that it happens. An important part of responsible SM play is being prepared for emergencies, and I know of no individual more qualified to provide education about such things than Jay Wiseman. Jay has been an SM practitioner for many years and is a veteran EMT. The advice in this book is practical and written in a clear and concise manner. I have given away copies of this book (and other books of Jay's), and will continue to do so. Other books he has authored show how to please a partner sexually, or to do ...
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74 (81) Fetish Sex: An Erotic Guide for Couples by Violet Blue

Violet Blue writes a fantastic book here! Details and examples, stories and everything. This book is a must have for anyone researching or just fascinated in fetishes.
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75 (59) How to Be a Dominant Diva by georgia Payne

This book or guide I should say won't disappoint. It gives very good, practical ideas with some twists. What I liked most about it was some of the ideas in the book can be a little tame for my taste but offered ways to give them a fetish twist which I liked much more. For someone who is just testing their boundaries to getting off-the-charts erotic there is something meant for all. There was also a rating system in the book for each idea rating how much an idea could cost to weather there could be travel involved. These Diva's went all out. Quite a few things R and I have done already however ...
 Amazon US: $24.95   Amazon UK: £17.99   Amazon FR: €20.81    Amazon DE: €23.19 

76 (65) The Female Dominant: Games She Plays by Claudia Varrin

Ms. Varrin is a slick businesswoman who is making money writing book after book about a subject she does not understand.
 Amazon US: $15.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €13.31    Amazon DE: €13.12 

77 (48) The Loving Dominant by John Warren

this is a topaz book so it won't go on my reader; no way to cancel the purchase; got screwed by Amazon again...
 Amazon US: $16.95   Amazon UK: £12.99   Amazon FR: €16.98    Amazon DE: €16.74 

78 (96) Fetish by David Bramwell

This book was very good, details were right on and the examples were fantastic, however if this book could have been a bit longer with a bit more fetishes involved it would have been perfect. I highly recommend this for anyone interested in learning about fetishes.
 Amazon US: $20.00   Amazon UK: £13.56   Amazon FR: €16.99    Amazon DE: €16.38 

79 (-) Protocol Handbook for the Leather Slave: Theory and Practice by Robert J Rubel PhD

A decade of M/s knowledge in one book Both books Master/slave Relations: Handbook of Theory and Practice and Protocol Handbook for the Leather Slave: Theory and Practice by Robert J. Rubel, PhD Cover the same subject with a slightly different focus. It amazes me that knowledge that took me years to learn is now available in 7 easy steps. The book can accelerate your journey into BDSM by a decade.
 Amazon US: $19.95   Amazon UK: £14.99   Amazon FR: €18.99    Amazon DE: €17.15 

80 (71) To Love, to Obey, to Serve: Diary of an Old Guard Slave by V. M. Johnson

As an Old Guard submissive, I was amazed by Vi Johnson's diary. I, too, am expected to keep a journal but the depth of mine does not compare to hers. Expectations differ by Dominant. While my Dominant does not expect me to construct a dungeon in Her home and would absolutely kill me if I were to turn to drugs, She does expect me to change in the ways She considers to be growth. This isn't easy but, after reading this book, I now appreciate how much my Dominant cares. I highly recommend this book to any submissive who thinks there's more to BDSM but doesn't know where to look.
 Amazon US: $17.95   Amazon UK: £13.99   Amazon FR: €14.97    Amazon DE: €14.76 

81 (80) The Ultimate Guide to Strap-On Sex: A Complete Resource for Women and Men by Karlyn Lotney

I'm a bit of a sex nerd; consequently I read a lot of instruction manuals. Of the ones I've seen, Fairy Butch's The Ultimate Guide To Strap-On Sex was the most useful and eye-opening, not just on the subject of strap-ons, but of sex toys in general, genderplay, lube (includes a section rating 30 or so lubes for texture and taste!), and communication. As another reviewer points out, columns from Butch's stint as a Dear Abby-style advice writer appear throughout--in at least one case, the text from one of these is reprinted almost verbatim pages later in the main text. If I were a regular ...
 Amazon US: $14.95   Amazon UK: £10.99   Amazon FR: €12.47    Amazon DE: €14.16 

82 (92) First Hand: An Erotic Guide to Fisting (A Boner Book) by Tim Brough

A few years ago I was introduced to fisting at a BDSM workshop, and have developed an interest in learning more. I have a knowledgeable mentor I have learned from, and have handballed a few times. Since my fisting journey has recently begun, I've experienced the amazing exchange of power and energy on multiple occasions. I wanted to read a book which would help me improve my understanding of the process and help guide me to be a better fister. I expected far more information on what it takes to be a successful top and bottom from a guide to fisting. According to my mentor, breathing ...
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83 (69) 21st Century Kinkycrafts by Janet W. Hardy

there are a few interesting things in it, but it is not worth paying full price for. The illustrations are poor quality, but the instructions are fairly easy to follow. The only thing that redeems this book is the fact that it tells you how to make the finished product out of things that most people have around the house anyway.
 Amazon US: $19.95   Amazon UK: £13.99   Amazon FR: €16.64    Amazon DE: €16.41 

84 (-) Training With Miss Abernathy: A Workbook for Erotic Slaves and Their Owners by Christina Abernathy

I finally got my hands on a copy of this book. It was well worth the wait. I think it has some very good exercises in it for learning to notice the small details in pleasing your Master. It was an easy read, and not a book that I will be willing to part with anytime soon if ever. It is written in a Mistress tone and if you can overcome that you will be able to enjoy this book. I had hoped it would cover more of the discipline aspects in training slaves but it is still a great book.
 Amazon US: $13.95   Amazon UK: £9.99   Amazon FR: €11.59    Amazon DE: €11.43 

85 (85) The Toybag Guide to Medical Play by Tempest

I enjoyed this book thoroughly. Although not new to the medical fetish, Tempest's book is more in-depth than the shallow doctor-and-patient role-playing I have experienced so far. The information about setting up the scene and how to deal with a whiny submissive was very useful. Also, there was plenty of sound medical advice to help keep it safe, sane, and consensual. I only wish it had been longer!
 Amazon US: $9.95   Amazon UK: £7.99   Amazon FR: €8.45    Amazon DE: €8.33 

86 (54) Urban Aboriginals by Geoff Mains

Urban Aboriginals is one of the most thought provoking, exciting and well-written ethnographies I have ever read. Geoff Mains is witty in his writing as he passionately introduces the reader to the real, scandalous and kinky lifestyle of The Leathermen. He takes a unique approach at introducing their way of life; he flows smoothly between objectively analyzing the men's behavior and including narrative anecdotes of their intimate lives. The book is very informative but introduces the concepts through the eyes of participating members, which seems to humanize and rationalize the otherwise ...
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87 (-) Bondage on a Budget by Alison Tyler

This sexy anthology is filled with stories for any appetite. It is NOT a how-to manual for S/M enthusiasts, but a collection of fictional stories along the lines of Naughty Stories from A to Z, Sweet Life, Best American Erotica, etc. If you like hot, sexy writing about people pushing the boundaries, you'll definitely like this book. It originally came out a few years ago under the Masquerade imprint, but is now freshly repackaged by Pretty Things Press. The stories are coded by type of story: hetero, lesbian, solo, orgy... very fun!
 Amazon US: $14.95   Amazon UK: £20.95    Amazon DE: €29.12 

88 (83) Look into My Eyes: How to Use Hypnosis to Bring Out the Best in Your Sex Life by Peter Masters

If your looking for a book to aid you in seducing young maidens; this is not the book for you. This is a well written handbook for those who have a understanding of hypnosis, that wish to expand their knowledge to use it in the bedroom. The author will tell you right at the beginning that this takes two willing partispants to use this book. So all you misguided deviants beware of wasting your money trying to seduce women by purchasing this book.
 Amazon US: $15.95   Amazon UK: £12.99   Amazon FR: €13.31    Amazon DE: €13.12 

89 (44) Consensual Spanking by Jules Markham

The book explained most all aspects of sexual, erotic and sensual spanking in a clear and detailed manner. Spanking is a fetish or fantasy that can be extremely ebarrassing to those that are aroused by it. When it's consentual between a man and a woman, it can be a stimulating element of sexual foreplay.It does not promote brutality or pain. The book relaxes the reader and provides guidelines for those that have had a hidden interest in spanking.
 Amazon US: $19.99   Amazon UK: £10.79   Amazon FR: €13.79    Amazon DE: €13.59 

90 (63) Making Nylon Whips by Shannon Reilly

Brings an interesting view into a different way of plaiting. Not a long book, and the pictures are a bit hard to see at times, but it has very simple and easy steps, and helps you learn to plait the taper of a whip with nylon.
 Amazon US: $12.95 

91 (75) Flames of Passion: Handbook of Erotic Fire Play by David Walker

For those who wish to learn the basic step-by-step lessons of fire play. Easy read, simple instructions, well thought out safety advice and insight. It was recommended to me, and I will absolutely recommend it to others.
 Amazon US: $19.95   Amazon UK: £14.99   Amazon FR: €18.99    Amazon DE: €17.15 

92 (-) Miss Abernathy's Concise Slave Training Manual by Christina Abernathy

Is book explains the reality of D/S in a clear start-forward way, and by passes all the fluff; it's not about the sex it's about the experience. A must read for anyone interested in D/S, it explained the why of problems that I have seen in several D/S relationships (mine and others). Have I said enough, "GET THIS BOOK" if your interested in having a winning experience as a Dom or a Slave!!!!
 Amazon US: $11.95   Amazon UK: £8.99   Amazon FR: €10.80    Amazon DE: €10.65 

93 (-) A to Z Of BDSM by Bill Reed

This is a good book that touches on many things and gives a nice look at the BDSM scene.
 Amazon US: $14.50   Amazon UK: £9.09   Amazon FR: €13.53    Amazon DE: €13.74 

94 (-) The Fetish Fact Book by Paul Scott

This book was not what I had expected when I purchased it. I felt there could have been alot more detail on things in this book, a little more specific on the fetishes at hand. If you are looking for a fetish book there are plenty of others our there better then this one.
 Amazon US: $7.95   Amazon UK: £5.99   Amazon FR: €7.83    Amazon DE: €7.72 

95 (-) The Bride Wore Black Leather...And He Looked Fabulous!: An Etiquette Guide for the Rest of Us by Drew Campbell

This is an excellent, helpful guide to etiquette for folks who didn't think Miss Manners would work for them - although, as Drew slyly implies, she could! The book offers common-sense advice told humorously and well for folks who move regularly in non-traditional roles and relationship structures. I hope everyone in these categories (and really, who isn't?) gives it a read.
 Amazon US: $11.95   Amazon UK: £8.99   Amazon FR: €10.42    Amazon DE: €10.28 

96 (88) The Toybag Guide to Canes and Caning by Janetw Hardy

Great instructional book that is small and easy to take with you or fits in your bedside table.
 Amazon US: $9.95   Amazon UK: £6.99   Amazon FR: €8.30    Amazon DE: €8.18 

97 (74) Erotic Bondage: The Art of Rope by Edward Lee

It has taken me almost 6 six years to bring myself to look for this book. I am the model's aunt and lived through the horrific times with my brother and other family members as the truth unfolded. Robert (Bob) Edward Lee Shell is serving a 32+ year sentance for the death of our beloved Marion, the cover model he convinced to help him make money through selling this book. By the way, notice she died June 3rd 2003 and this book was published after her death. He had promised Marion's mother he would not publish nude pictures of her, so he changed his name around hoping we wouldn't notice.....such ...
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98 (70) Intimate Invasion: The Erotic ins & Outs of Enema Play by M. R. Strict

My husband and I have spent hours poring over the salicious stories in this TREASURE. There are a couple chapters that serve as a guide for the enema inclined (different solutions, how to administer, etc) and also a good chapter on the morals involved in any BDSM activity. The erotic stories are very well written and make the book difficult to put down. I love to read it while I EXPEL. We are both huge fans of M.R. Strict after enjoying this book, and we are ANXIOUSLY awaiting a sequel!!
 Amazon US: $13.95   Amazon UK: £9.99   Amazon FR: €11.64    Amazon DE: €11.47 

99 (72) Learning the Ropes: A Basic Guide to Safe and Fun S/m Lovemaking by Race Bannon

This is one of those introductory books that I highly recommend to people who think they may be interested in BDSM -- the other is "Sensuous Magic" by Pat Califia which I see is being reprinted this year. Race Bannon, you have to wonder if he chose this as a penname or if its his real name, has done a great job on be concise and yet clear in describing a type of sexuality and initmacy that some people enjoy. It also does a good job of being realistic, not making SM too romantic or simple so that everyone wants to run out and try it because frankly BDSM is not for everyone and should not be ...
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100 (87) Partners in Power: Living in Kinky Relationships by Jack Rinella

The book over all is fantastic, but I find it to be missing, or perhaps denying one rather large classification under "The Archetypes of SM Relationships". The chapter mentions Daddy/boy relationships but fails to mention anything about Daddy/girl relationships. I understand that there is a limited space in a book, but that is a really key piece of information in my opinion.
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